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What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Has Already Started Seeing Someone Else

Getting expert advice about precisely how to get your ex back can help hugely. Most people have experienced the pain of a broken relationship at one time or another; it can be agonizing, I know, especially when there’s another girl in the picture. Nothing can compare to the feelings of pain, anger jealousy, sorrow, guilt, that follow a break-up; unfortunately I’ve experienced them all. But don’t worry; Statistics say that 90% of broken relationships can be restored so lets make an effort to make yours one of the 90%.

How to steal back your ex from someone else

Don’t just jump into this blindly, you may only have one opportunity to win your ex back, and there is a right and a wrong way to approach the problem so take some expert advice and that way you’ll make sure you never make any foolish mistakes.

Shouting, sobbing and calling your ex names may seem the right thing to do at the time, but resist the urge, wait until you’ve quietened down and had time to reflect. Don’t visit him crying and pleading either, this is foolish; where’s your pride? The last thing you want is him to take you back out of sheer pity; what a miserable relationship that would result in! Hold your head up, be mature about things, pay attention to some good advice and you should double your success rate

When you’ve quietened down and have a clear head, you need to let him go, Yes I am aware it’s hard but it’s part of the plan; give him some space, stay out of his way for a little while. The first thing you mustn’t do is pester him all the time by text or even telephone or by following him every where he goes.. That will just make him believe that you’re desperate or needy which is highly unattractive.

What ever you do, never talk negatively about your ex or his new girlfriend behind his back; not to anyone, it will get back to him, that’s for sure, and you wouldn’t like to make him defensive towards his new girlfriend. Even though it might seem counter intuitive, be supportive of his new relationship and hide the fact that you may perhaps be feeling insecure or jealous.

After the dust has settled, you have to start making friends again. Keep it on a friendship only basis and work on him until you have his trust back. Gradually he’ll start to see you as his closest friend and confidante, this is just what you’re aiming for. Again resist all temptation to criticize his new girlfriend, in fact if he discusses her at all, you have to remain completely neutral. Once his new relationship begins to deteriorate, you’ll be the one he turns to.

Why Rebound Relationships Never Last
His new girlfriend is just a distraction to fill the void of missing you. When the honeymoon period of getting to know someone has worn off he will soon come to his senses and wonder what he is doing. This period usually lasts about 6-9 weeks as this is the amount of time it takes him to get bored with his new flame. There is no need to worry, your history together will be far more important to him than a few weeks with someone new, it may just take him a little time to figure this out on his own.

Another part of getting your ex back is to pay attention to yourself; are you still the woman he fell in love with and if not Why? You must be able to remember exactly what it was your ex loved about you when you first met; was it how you looked or your sassy confidence perhaps? If you have lost these things you have to figure out how to get them back and how to become irresistible to him again.

If you honestly think your man and you are intended to be together you just can’t leave things to chance. If you make a slip-up now, you may never be able to put things right; you really must take some expert advice.

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3 Responses to “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Has Already Started Seeing Someone Else”

  • Shirley B says:

    My husband of 30yrs. He is very angry with me and blames me for our moving to Texas. We both agreed to move and since we are here he hates it! To make a long story short we were together here in Texas for 6 months during this time all we did was fight about the small stuff. (Who left the light on)? Well now we have been separated for almost 7 months now and I have done everything I know how to try and connect with him. At this point he has totally cut all contact with me. I’m sure by now he had met some one new. He refuses to tell me where he lives ? I can only reach him by phone and now he will only answer for our 3 children. We were high school sweethearts
    And I know he loves me but is very angry with me for moving here to Texas. Can you help me to save my marriage while he goes threw his MIDLIFE ?

  • Priya says:

    My ex boyfriend and I were together since two years. We finally broke up and I did the no contact rule (30 days). After one month, I called him back but to my great surprise, he is seeing a new girlfriend and wants to get in a serious relationship with her. I called him and texted him but he ignored my calls and messages and he even asked me to stop harassing him. He seems to be very in love with that girl. His parents have talked to him regarding our relationship as they loved me a lot. He told them that he needs to think about it. Till then Im not calling him nor texting him neither he is calling me. I want him back. What can i do now?

  • Christine Edwards says:

    Screwy breakup. I was struggling in the month of September,, I had buried myself in dog rescue and was overwhelmed….I ignored him quite a bit. He asked me to dinner one night and I declined without telling him I had anotther commitment. He took it as a breakup. Within days he started seeing another girl at his work. We had a short back and forth spat. He ended with he still had feelings for me…and I backed off with once in a while contact..I initiated. Not angry ..more chatty than anything…then he cut contact saying chatting was bad because he wasstill addicted to me. Only one text two weeks ago me saying I was sorry his car burnt up. He responded and I didnT respond back. No contact now…he is on sick leave withhis foot. His relationship with this girl is still on…2 . 5 months. Wbat do I do?

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