Getting expert advice about precisely how to get your ex back can help hugely. Most people have experienced the pain of a broken relationship at one time or another; it can be agonizing, I know, especially when there’s another girl in the picture. Nothing can compare to the feelings of pain, anger jealousy, sorrow, guilt, that follow a break-up; unfortunately I’ve experienced them all. But don’t worry; Statistics say that 90% of broken relationships can be restored so lets make an effort to make yours one of the 90%.
Don’t just jump into this blindly, you may only have one opportunity to win your ex back, and there is a right and a wrong way to approach the problem so take some expert advice and that way you’ll make sure you never make any foolish mistakes.
Shouting, sobbing and calling your ex names may seem the right thing to do at the time, but resist the urge, wait until you’ve quietened down and had time to reflect. Don’t visit him crying and pleading either, this is foolish; where’s your pride? The last thing you want is him to take you back out of sheer pity; what a miserable relationship that would result in! Hold your head up, be mature about things, pay attention to some good advice and you should double your success rate
When you’ve quietened down and have a clear head, you need to let him go, Yes I am aware it’s hard but it’s part of the plan; give him some space, stay out of his way for a little while. The first thing you mustn’t do is pester him all the time by text or even telephone or by following him every where he goes.. That will just make him believe that you’re desperate or needy which is highly unattractive.
What ever you do, never talk negatively about your ex or his new girlfriend behind his back; not to anyone, it will get back to him, that’s for sure, and you wouldn’t like to make him defensive towards his new girlfriend. Even though it might seem counter intuitive, be supportive of his new relationship and hide the fact that you may perhaps be feeling insecure or jealous.
After the dust has settled, you have to start making friends again. Keep it on a friendship only basis and work on him until you have his trust back. Gradually he’ll start to see you as his closest friend and confidante, this is just what you’re aiming for. Again resist all temptation to criticize his new girlfriend, in fact if he discusses her at all, you have to remain completely neutral. Once his new relationship begins to deteriorate, you’ll be the one he turns to.
Another part of getting your ex back is to pay attention to yourself; are you still the woman he fell in love with and if not Why? You must be able to remember exactly what it was your ex loved about you when you first met; was it how you looked or your sassy confidence perhaps? If you have lost these things you have to figure out how to get them back and how to become irresistible to him again.
If you honestly think your man and you are intended to be together you just can’t leave things to chance. If you make a slip-up now, you may never be able to put things right; you really must take some expert advice.
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