Why Making Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You Is Crucial In Getting Him Back
It must be the worst feeling in the world being dumped by the man you love; I know, I’ve been there. You’ll probably be feeling hurt and confused, especially if you didn’t see it coming and you’ll be desperate to know how to get him back again.
So what you need to learn first is how to make him miss you like crazy. If you’re like most people, I guess you’ll be wondering ‘how on earth do you go about making a guy miss you?’ Well now, if you just follow the golden rules, you’ll soon realize how easy it can be.
When you begin to understand how important missing someone is in getting them back, you will know that this is your best way of making him change his mind about the break up. After all, he will never want you back unless he misses you first. There are some proven techniques to make him miss you, even if you have been broken up for a long while.
Your Must Lay Low To Give Him A Chance To Miss You
I think it should be obvious but if you want to make a guy miss you you’re going to have to keep out of his way for a while. Why? I’m sure you can see for yourself that in order for him to miss you, you’ll have to have been off the scene for a while. Number one – stop all that texting and phoning, I’m sure you believe in the phrase absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You might find the first step a little difficult because it goes against a woman’s intuition. I’m afraid it’s in a women’s make up to want to constantly contact their ex at first and therefore they will have an overwhelming desire to keep phoning or texting their ex. You mustn’t do this, you’re likely to drive him further away, which won’t help matters at all. Instead, what you need to do is to remove yourself from the scene altogether for a while – don’t even call his family or friends – that way he’ll start to wonder where you are and start worrying why you’ve stopped chasing him.
If you find this a hard step to do you might be best to ask a friend for help. Try to keep yourself occupied by doing something that you’ve always wanted to do. Perhaps you could take a vacation or visit some long lost friends. In fact anything to keep your mind occupied – we just want to keep you away from that telephone! Just keep reminding yourself of the end results – it’ll take a little time for him to miss you and to realize what he’s given up.
How He Will React To Your Sudden Disappearance
I bet your ex will expect you to call him over the first couple of days – he’ll likely be quite surprised when you don’t. Once a week has gone by without any contact, your ex will start to worry – it’s a real psychological turning point when he realizes you are no longer chasing him. Chances are he’ll start to wonder whether he’s done the right thing. You’ll begin to be in his every thought and he’ll start to miss you and you’ll be well on your way to getting him back again.
I hope you realize that once your ex starts to miss you, you’re half way home. When he decides to contact you, you need to know what to do. One false move at this stage could ruin everything. You need to learn a few proven tactics which involve knowing a little bit about the male psyche. If you are to stand any chance of winning back his love you will need to know what you are doing and not leave things to chance.
Do The Opposite Of What He Expects You To Do
A brilliant technique that many women use to turn the whole break up situation around is to stop chasing him altogether and subtlety pull him back towards you. He will definitely be expecting some kind of change in you after the break up, especially if he was the one that broke up with you. His male ego does not want to be bruised by you and he secretly expects you to continue to chase after him. Don’t you think that it would be a better decision to shock him and worry him? When you do this you will be forcing him to question why he broke up with you in the first place. He will begin to worry that he is going to lose you for good and then be proactive in his desire to win you back.
If you do not text him, look at him or ask him any questions it will look as though you have moved on with your life and have better things to do. This will make him feel very vulnerable and make him miss you in his life. Of course you don’t want to hurt or upset him, you won’t be doing anything wrong though. You have to look at it like this. Self-control is a very attractive trait and you should be engaging it whenever possible. If you allow your emotions to run away with you the truth is that it will be difficult for him to see you in a positive light and miss you at all. Instead show him what he is missing in a very clever way.
What He Will Be Expecting You To Do At This Point
Your ex will probably expect you to call within the first few days – it will probably puzzle him when you don’t. Give it a week and he’ll start to worry – once he realizes you’ve stopped chasing him you’ve hit a turning point and a real psychological change takes place. He’ll probably start to regret his actions and question whether he did the right thing. You’ll start to be on his mind all day long and he’ll soon realize that he misses you. You really need to know what to say at this stage – it’s critical in your efforts to win him back.
Your Next Step
Of course the above article can only scratch the surface. There are many more tricks for you to learn if you want to get your ex back. A very popular way of getting an ex back is to use text messages. There is an excellent ebook and audio system available that will show you all of the strategies that you need to text back your ex. You will be surprised about how fast you get a reply from them. Find out more about this professional system here: Text Your Ex.
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