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Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You – Discover The Secrets Of Making It Happen

Why Making Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You Is Crucial In Getting Him Back

It must be the worst feeling in the world being dumped by the man you love; I know, I’ve been there. You’ll probably be feeling hurt and confused, especially if you didn’t see it coming and you’ll be desperate to know how to get him back again.

So what you need to learn first is how to make him miss you like crazy. If you’re like most people, I guess you’ll be wondering ‘how on earth do you go about making a guy miss you?’ Well now, if you just follow the golden rules, you’ll soon realize how easy it can be.

When you begin to understand how important missing someone is in getting them back, you will know that this is your best way of making him change his mind about the break up. After all, he will never want you back unless he misses you first. There are some proven techniques to make him miss you, even if you have been broken up for a long while.

Your Must Lay Low To Give Him A Chance To Miss You

I think it should be obvious but if you want to make a guy miss you you’re going to have to keep out of his way for a while. Why? I’m sure you can see for yourself that in order for him to miss you, you’ll have to have been off the scene for a while. Number one – stop all that texting and phoning, I’m sure you believe in the phrase absence makes the heart grow fonder.

You might find the first step a little difficult because it goes against a woman’s intuition. I’m afraid it’s in a women’s make up to want to constantly contact their ex at first and therefore they will have an overwhelming desire to keep phoning or texting their ex. You mustn’t do this, you’re likely to drive him further away, which won’t help matters at all. Instead, what you need to do is to remove yourself from the scene altogether for a while – don’t even call his family or friends – that way he’ll start to wonder where you are and start worrying why you’ve stopped chasing him.

If you find this a hard step to do you might be best to ask a friend for help. Try to keep yourself occupied by doing something that you’ve always wanted to do. Perhaps you could take a vacation or visit some long lost friends. In fact anything to keep your mind occupied – we just want to keep you away from that telephone! Just keep reminding yourself of the end results – it’ll take a little time for him to miss you and to realize what he’s given up.

How He Will React To Your Sudden Disappearance

I bet your ex will expect you to call him over the first couple of days – he’ll likely be quite surprised when you don’t. Once a week has gone by without any contact, your ex will start to worry – it’s a real psychological turning point when he realizes you are no longer chasing him. Chances are he’ll start to wonder whether he’s done the right thing. You’ll begin to be in his every thought and he’ll start to miss you and you’ll be well on your way to getting him back again.

I hope you realize that once your ex starts to miss you, you’re half way home. When he decides to contact you, you need to know what to do. One false move at this stage could ruin everything. You need to learn a few proven tactics which involve knowing a little bit about the male psyche. If you are to stand any chance of winning back his love you will need to know what you are doing and not leave things to chance.

Do The Opposite Of What He Expects You To Do

A brilliant technique that many women use to turn the whole break up situation around is to stop chasing him altogether and subtlety pull him back towards you. He will definitely be expecting some kind of change in you after the break up, especially if he was the one that broke up with you. His male ego does not want to be bruised by you and he secretly expects you to continue to chase after him. Don’t you think that it would be a better decision to shock him and worry him? When you do this you will be forcing him to question why he broke up with you in the first place. He will begin to worry that he is going to lose you for good and then be proactive in his desire to win you back.

If you do not text him, look at him or ask him any questions it will look as though you have moved on with your life and have better things to do. This will make him feel very vulnerable and make him miss you in his life. Of course you don’t want to hurt or upset him, you won’t be doing anything wrong though. You have to look at it like this. Self-control is a very attractive trait and you should be engaging it whenever possible. If you allow your emotions to run away with you the truth is that it will be difficult for him to see you in a positive light and miss you at all. Instead show him what he is missing in a very clever way.

What He Will Be Expecting You To Do At This Point

Your ex will probably expect you to call within the first few days – it will probably puzzle him when you don’t. Give it a week and he’ll start to worry – once he realizes you’ve stopped chasing him you’ve hit a turning point and a real psychological change takes place. He’ll probably start to regret his actions and question whether he did the right thing. You’ll start to be on his mind all day long and he’ll soon realize that he misses you. You really need to know what to say at this stage – it’s critical in your efforts to win him back.

 Your Next Step

Of course the above article can only scratch the surface. There are many more tricks for you to learn if you want to get your ex back. A very popular way of getting an ex back is to use text messages. There is an excellent ebook and audio system available that will show you all of the strategies that you need to text back your ex. You will be surprised about how fast you get a reply from them. Find out more about this professional system here: Text Your Ex.

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7 Responses to “Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You – Discover The Secrets Of Making It Happen”

  • Hannah Larter says:

    My ex broke up with me because of his anger issues and he was scared to hurt me then two days later he told me to delete his number so i did but i really miss him and i love him with all my heart how do i get him back if i cant contact him and we have deleted each others number

  • Maryanne says:

    Hi I’ve been married for 18 years but we have been separated for two although in the past year we have become close again and intimate, we have always had a very strong physical connection, we also have three girls, he works away from us we see him about once a month two months Go after a disagreement he picked up a girl 15 years younger than me , very plain my exact opposite in every way now he says he’s totally in love and after pursuing me non stop for two years Nd swearing undying love he picked up someone 4 days after being with me… Is this kind of no contact really going to work when this girl is all over him saying she loves him and will never leave him? A week ago we had a family holiday that was planned before all this , I find it hard to believe the man who is totally over me held me kissed me repeatedly cheated on her ( funny we are not divorced ..) and cried over me so much in those four days … Then she would txt and he would look grumpy and cross his arms and not want to touch me, he lied to her about me being on the holiday and I’m not sure she even knows he’s not divorced… Ahh I was so sure we would be back together in a matter of months .. He is the love of my life who is drinking way to much for a happy in love man,, some days he txt with xxx then some days nothing .. I am due to see him again on Saturday when he comes to stay with girls in a hotel !!! What do I do !!! Only thing I know I can do is deliver my girls looking a million times better than her but he already admitted she isn’t prettier than me so …. Help !!!!!

  • jes says:

    He callse asking about my wellbeung. Should i ask him not to

    • Maryanne says:

      Mine text me every morning saying have a great day with xxx its hard isn’t it? You want to hear from them , I’ve been married 18 years my heart still skips a beat at one if his text but we might have to accept we are being kept on like the sofa they just can’t part with even tho they have a new one to sit on now …I’m doing no contact only 4 days so far 🙁

  • kane says:

    We had an off and on again relationship and we keep breaking up and after 1-2 months we get back together. This time, after 2 months, we get together but a week later, he tell me he’s seeing someone else but said we can be friends. How can I make him miss me if he’s already seeing someone else so he says. Please advise… 🙁

    PS after hearing him say that, I’m less motivated to pursue any kind of relationship with him but I am curious as to how I can make him miss me.

  • sanny says:

    I had a relationship of 5 years,I was his 1st love. and this january he cheated me and started a new relationship with a new girl in his college.
    He shows me that he hates me, He doesnt contact me for a month, I kept sending him texts about our memories, but now i dont.Before he leave he said that no one will love him as much as i did.Somehow he shows up that he is happy with the new woman and he doesnt remember me at all.people say the new girl is not as pretty as me . but she is there with him because she is in his college too.He had said his freind that he liked that girl because of her eyes, the way she talks and her personality. he always said that he doesnt want someone who is doing the same carrier as him, but she is doing the same carrier.
    when i got to know this relationship it has been 1 week for it. i talked to the girl too and asked not like a week, how can i forget 5 years of memories? I was there in his struggeling time, now he is a successful man because i was there with him. then she blamed me saying now he loves her, not me, so better off without him. but i did not blame her.
    I’m going through a hell with 5 years of memories and flashbacks.
    I have helped him through his exams sacrificing my exams.
    but he stays as he never remembers me. we have made a lot of memories. love and sex both.
    he and i are in same age 23 now. He said he disposed everything i gave him, gifts cards everything. but
    his mother said he has not throwed away the gifts i gave him, they are still there in his room.
    Doeshe remember me?
    does he miss me too but doesnt show?
    what should I do? and will he come back ever?

  • Zuzu says:

    My ex partner and I had been together for 10 years. On the 3rd February this year I caught him out and he had been cheating on me for 2 months and the girl he was cheating on me with was a customer lol! Anyway I had no issues with the girl, when I confronted her she was unaware of my very existence. She was keen to keep in contact with me (God knows why?) so I allowed her to then when she was bad mouthing my ex and I have nothing back, she sent me a snotty message and how he was so needy and I was deluded if I thought he was coming back to me. Anyway… She kept posting pics with him and what not so I just liked the posts and two weeks later blocked both from social media and on my phone. Now I keep receiving unknown number calls and when I picked up one of them it was that girl, but she cut off. Now I’m confused why are they even bothering me? Is it a game plan? What does he want? He’s trying to mess with my head. Anyone offer any advice????

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