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Why Do Men Leave Women?

Find Out Why Men Leave Women And How To Make Him Crazy About You Again

Exactly why do men leave women? Why do men fall out of love? If you have just been through a relationship split up, I’m sure these are typically a few of the questions on your mind at this moment. I understand just how stressful it is at this moment, you’re sure to be feeling emotional, but don’t allow them to rule your head. It’s vital now that you keep a clear head, if you want to stand the best chance of a reconciliation with your ex.

There is a well used adage which goes; ‘slowly, slowly catchy monkey’ – I’ve no idea whether or not you might have heard it before but it’s a good one to consider at the moment. In essence it implies if you are cautious and patient then you will get what you wish for without making any mistakes, but if you are rash and impatient you’ll make mistakes and you will never catch the monkey! Therefore the first thing you should do now is to get your heated emotions at bay so that you can move on with a clear and logical mind.

What Attracts Men?

Think long and hard about this and start to think from a male perspective. Look back on what made your ex boyfriend like you in the first place. What did he say first attracted him to you? When you realise this you will soon see that you have everything you need to go about making yourself attractive to him again. All you have to do is find these qualities and work on them to win back his affections!

The Differences Between Men And Women

You’ve probably realized that women and men are different! – No I do not mean physically, I mean mentally! There’s a book called ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ which attempts to encapsulate the differences in the way men and women think. Take some time right now to reflect on what ‘s been going on with your relationship recently, are you aware of what you could have been doing wrong?

The majority of females assume that guys think in a similar fashion to them – they couldn’t be more mistaken. I’m sure you are aware that women and men differ mentally, but I do not believe most females appreciate exactly how much. In order to understand the reason behind your ex’ boyfriends behavior , then you’ll definitely need to begin at the beginning simply by understanding the way males think. This is just one example: males place their own career and wealth as the most important priority, and without it they find it hard to think about a future or a relationship.

It makes sense when you think about it, it’s all in our human make-up – the men were supposed to hunt and provide for the family and the women stayed at home caring for their young. Guys have a deep hunter, gatherer, protector behavioral instinct where as a woman’s priority is a family and children. It does not take a great deal to learn about these differences, and they will go a long way towards helping you recognize your own relationship difficulties. We will cover a few points right now pertaining to the actual likes and dislikes of males.

Common Reasons Why Men Leave Women

One typical reason why men leave women is simply because they don’t see them as physically appealing any longer. This one thing is not sufficient to make a man leave his lady, but when other challenges build up, it seems to be the principal culprit. I hope this part doesn’t apply to you, however it’s really worth taking a good look at yourself

– Are you still making the best of your appearance?

-Do you still put on your make-up before he leaves for work?

-Do you wear attractive clothing or just sloppy joes?

-What is happening with your weight?

Well, is their room for improvement? In that case you have taken the first step, which is in recognizing the situation – so let’s get to work!

The following points will give you a good idea of what men want and don’t want in a relationship, it’s by no means exhaustive but it’s a good start.

  • Make a guy Really feel Good about themselves and you’ve identified the key
  • Men have got egos that need to be fed. To be able to do this you’ll want to give him praise and admiration in addition to affection and also let him know that he’s appreciated
  • Men also need a bit of excitement in their lives which I am sure you are aware of
  • Allow your guy some independence – all men want their own space occasionally, no matter whether it’s a potting shed in the backyard or perhaps a saturday golfing – obviously if he wants his freedom every day without considering you, that’s another story
  • Men can’t stand nagging females. Men really feel inadequate if they don’t think they’re living up to a woman’s high expectations
  • Finally – how was your sex life? If you’ve been too tired for the last six months and imagined a hug would suffice, think again 

2 Things Men are Terrified Of (and How to Help Without Letting Them Know You Know)

He will never tell you any of this.

In fact, he’s dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!)

Well, he won’t tell you, but I will.

But first, two warnings:

First, this isn’t a complete list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggest ones. (I’m working on more articles about a few of the others…)

Second, I’m not telling you so you can shame him. I’m doing this so you can help him. But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn’t know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty dark secrets, too.

On to the juice, shall we?

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay

I won’t tell you that old thing about how guys want waaay more sex that women do, because it’s actually not true. Women want it, we just want it under different terms. He just… wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it. With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register. He’s even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.

Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what’s showing on the screen shocks even him.

Deep down, he’s terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people. His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it’s a testament to his power that he doesn’t let it drive his life, only his brain.

What YOU can do to help him

Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less scared about his sexual desire. I’m not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about, but be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies. Invite him to give you steamy details. Even the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.

Help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.

And finally, don’t forget to let him know you’re sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he’s going to become so riveted by you he’ll never want to let you go. EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman.

GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think I’m weak

You’ve got to feel for the men of our world. They’re expected to get a respectable paycheck, make us feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.

It’s a lot to live up to.

It’s impossible to live up to, actually.

And yet that’s the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don’t answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised… Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.

But that doesn’t mean YOU don’t have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.

What YOU can do to help him

I have a question for you: if he’s fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support for him?

I’m not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he’ll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you’re seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.

Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit. Ask for details. Don’t multitask while you’re doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

3 Steps to make a man love you

If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players” and guys
who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this
new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and 
it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actually
make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

–> Make him powerfully addicted (in a really good way) to you!

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men
really want and need from a woman for them to be able
to give EVERYTHING to her… (In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend Captured
His Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though
he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

Your Next Step – Capture His Heart And Understand What He Wants From You

It’s time right now to figure out things like ‘what will make a guy bored in a relationship’, and ‘what makes his perfect partner’. When you have found out how you can satisfy a man’s needs, you can go about attracting him again and making him commit to you. Truth is that there are some things that make a man question whether or not they should have a future with you. Most women do not know that they are doing anything wrong. You need to understand exactly why men become distant and pull away from you. You will also find out how to create emotional intimacy again and make him interested in you like he was at the start of your relationship.

Take a look at this system by renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore. It takes an in depth look into relationship dynamics, why men want certain things from women and how to meet his needs so that he is fulfilled and doesn’t want to leave again. Figure out why men cheat and why they look at other women. It is a practical how to system that enables you to see your relationship through his eyes and understand what has been going wrong up until now. WATCH THIS VIDEO to find out more about the system.

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3 Responses to “Why Do Men Leave Women?”

  • Michelle says:

    Hi,i hope opening up to a total stranger could be helpful,see I need professional advise becouse I want to make sure I dont take the wrong step, I would love to get my ex back,weve been together for five yrs,on n off,n he broke up with me two weeks ago he completely blocked me from fb n out of his life,what can I do to get him to unblock me n return to me,?? He also stopped showing caring for my emotional feelings? N if I came up with a solution to make things better between us he wouldnt comply..

  • Sophia says:

    It remains a mystery why my ex left me and it has been more than 2 years. I saw him on the street 6 months after we split up and he would not even speak to me. I am sure he will never come back and am saddened by this. I do not know who he is with or what he is doing and he does not reply to any type of message I send, which is generally open an honest, nice and caring. So sometimes there is no way to get the man back. I thought he loved me after 3-4 years and that we would get married, but apparently I was mistaken. He does not love me and just left for some reason I will never understand. I am not a young girl and he is not a boy. It must be by now he has found someone else and that he has moved on. It is a tough pill to swallow without any hard evidence. The fact that he refuses to communicate with me is evidence enough that he has moved on to something else. I always had the feeling this man was the type who was not the marrying kind and thought by this age (50) his thinking might shift. I have heard some men declare with great pride at age 80 that they have never been married, as if they had dodged a bullet. This is sort of pathological and really what is the point of trying to wrangle with an individual who has a very firm negative stance on the issue of marriage.

  • Sara says:

    k.:That was like me and my boyfriend last year.I was 15 last year.Anyways, when your maikng out, like on a bed, put his hand up your skirt, or if your not wearing one, then like where he has to undo the button on your pants. Put your hand down his pants.He’ll love it.Just don’t do what I did. We had sex after two months of dating. Bad idea when your 15. Don’t go too far with him, the relationship won’t last long.References : I’ve been there

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