Signs Ex Girlfriend Still Loves Me
Does Your Ex Girlfriend Still Love You? – Find Out How She Really Feels
Despite how it may feel at this particular moment, no breakup is really over until your ex has moved on and completely let go. Women take breakups even harder than guys do – they find the emotions confusing and it often sends them into a tailspin. They’ve formed a bond with you throughout the course of your time together and those bonds are not easily severed.
You still have a chance to win her back - at least for a time she’ll be torn between two options: taking you back and moving on. This decision won’t come easy for you, and she’ll have to carefully weigh out her options despite what she may have said. You need to take our opportunity while it is ripe and step up to the plate if you have any chance of getting her back.
Using those emotions to your advantage is the key to making her regret ending the relationship. These attachments are important to her, and it’s not going to be easy for her to let go. Chances are that your ex will be thinking about the good parts of your relationship a long time after it has ended. If you carefully play your options correctly, you can enhance these thoughts and use them to your advantage.
She’s probably already having second thoughts about the breakup, and remembering the good times you had together will make these thoughts more frequent. She’s looking for justification to make sense of the reasons she left you, and if these justifications are more and more sparse, she’ll start to rethink her choice.
…that’s exactly what you want to accomplish! By regretting her decision to end the relationship, her assertiveness will start to crumble. She’ll start to think that it’s possible that she could lose you for good and by this point she doesn’t want that to happen. If she continues the track she’s on, she’s certainly going to be missing out.
Correctly Recognize The Signs
Certain signals are definitely present if your ex-girlfriend is still in love with you. The signs should be obvious – even if she’s trying to hide it. You need to pay attention to more than just her words – pay attention to her actions as well. Some signs point clearly to the fact that she’s simply not ready to move on. Others are not so clear. Figuring what they mean is a crucial part of increasing your chances and ending up back together.
There’s a lot to think about, and with all of this going on, it’s important to not raise your expectations too high. Don’t allow yourself to go off the deep end and let your excitement get away from you. It’s possible that some of the signs you think you’re seeing aren’t really there and it’s just wishful thinking. It’s important to be realistic and to take certain things at face value. This will allow you to make careful choices and not get carried away.
Attachments between two people in romantic relationships don’t simply vanish overnight just because a relationship is over. Your breakup might have happened at the speed of light, but the feelings that your ex-girlfriend have for you last for longer. Before the breakup happened, your ex probably spent a lot of time analyzing your relationship and trying to figure out what to do. Although her decision was ultimately to end things, her feelings didn’t just stop.
You need to try and figure out how much of those feelings are still there underneath the surface. You need to be able to make the right decisions and plan your moves out carefully. This is a vital part of the process to successfully getting her back.
After the breakup first happened, your ex probably displayed some anger – or let you know that she was hurt. She was trying to ascertain where you stood by goading you for a reaction. Girls are master manipulators and the know how to take revenge.
If you caused her a lot of pain, she may want you to experience the same thing. If she simply showed no emotion at all, it would be clear that she was done with the relationship as a whole and was ready to move on.
If she’s showing other types of emotion in front of you now, it’s a sign that she’s starting to let her guard down. She’s allowing you to see her vulnerable, and she’s reaching out for a different kind of reaction from you. If her feelings for you were dead and buried, she wouldn’t be riding an emotional roller coaster. She would simply move on with her life and maintain an up-beat attitude.
Does She Still Remain In Contact With You?
If your ex-girlfriend has kept in contact even after ending the relationship, it’s a definite sign that she wants to keep you around. She doesn’t want to risk losing you completely and she wants to make sure that you stick around. If she’s not only maintaining continual contact but also initiating it, that’s a definite bonus. If she’s simply responding to your efforts to reach out to her, it still can be a good sign.
If she was absolutely done with the relationship with no hope of recovery, she would have been long gone. You wouldn’t be receiving any texts or emails and she wouldn’t be answering any of your messages. She would be polite but short if you continually tried to get in touch before starting the silent treatment and not responding at all.
If your ex has initiated a no-contact policy, don’t throw in the towel just yet. There are still ways to open the channels of communication again. Before taking any action, think about what you’re doing. Don’t risk blowing your shot by acting impulsively. The best moves for all situations can be found here.
She Starts Asking Around About You
There’s a normal period after a breakup where both parties go their own separate ways. Guys and girls both need a little bit of time to relax and let their feelings cool. Although the relationship may be over, a lot of things are still up in the air and it’s normal for any contact between the two of you to stop completely.
This period of silence is not permanent. Either this period will lead into a time where both of you have become adjusted to the breakup and you naturally just head in opposite directions or you’ll realize that your ex has been asking about you. She’ll start wondering what you’re up to and she may be approaching friends, family or coworkers to see what’s been happening in your life. She wants to know what her options are in case she wants to make a move – and so she can figure out what that move should be. She’s really after information to see if you’ve already moved on. This is a sure way to tell that something has changed on her side of the table.
It’s a good sign when your ex starts becoming curious about your life, and it shouldn’t be viewed as an intrusion into your privacy. She wants to know if it’s still possible to reconnect, even if she’s not quite ready to make that leap.
Although you may be tempted to go overboard, it’s vital that you keep your cool. Just because she’s inquiring about you to mutual friends doesn’t mean that she’s ready to commit or start dating again. Don’t appear to be too eager about this news and scare her away – possibly for good. Keep calm and watch for any changes. This way you’ll keep her respect while still maintaining your cool.
She Attempts to Make You Jealous
This is a girl’s crowning art. They’re almost TOO good. If you’ve failed to give her the reaction that she wants, she knows that being seen with someone else is one of the quickest ways to get your attention. She may parade a new flame in front of you in public, and it should be pretty clear that she’s just trying to rile you up. By jumping into a new relationship so quickly after your breakup, it’s also clear that she’s not over her feelings for you. It isn’t normal to move on so quickly after a relationship ends – no one can pull it off successfully.
This tactic may serve a dual purpose. Not only does she think that she can get you jealous and willing to fight to get her back, but she also wants to boost her self-confidence. Her ego probably took a bit of a dip after the breakup even if it was her idea. She’s attempting to fill a void in her life that has become apparent in your absence. Not everything is as it seems.
In order to figure out what’s really going on in this situation you need to gauge her behavior carefully. If she’s always updating her Twitter or Facebook with all the fun things she’s doing, she is doing it specifically to get a reaction. She probably is betting on the fact that you’re checking up on her and she’s doing it intentionally. She is doing this simply for you and not for any other reason. If she was really finding a way to keep herself so busy so constantly, would she really have the time to be updating her accounts?
Even though it may be a kick in the gut to see all the pictures of her fawning over another guy, realize that she still feels deeply for you. She’s trying to pretend that everything’s fine – but it’s not, underneath the surface.
She Randomly Calls You Out of the Blue
You haven’t heard from her in a few weeks and you’re obsessively stalking her Facebook profile for clues. You’re ready to throw your computer out the window and all of her new pictures make you feel sick. But just when you’re about to crack open a beverage, the phone rings – and it’s her.
If she’s calling you without any warning, then you’re obviously on her mind. She may have had one too many drinks, or her plans with her girlfriends fell through. She may be bored and lonely. Regardless of the reason, she decided that calling you was a good idea, so she did. Maybe calling you is still like second-nature and it was done before she had time to think about it. Chances are, whatever conversation you had was a little strange.
If she’s calling you for no reason that you can figure out, it’s safe to say that she’s not thinking clearly. This is her attempt to build a bridge and branch out for contact and comfort with someone that she used to feel very familiar with. If she’s calling you for a very intentional purpose it’s one thing. Calling you out of nowhere is something else entirely. This can be taken as a good thing. It means that she’s still interested. She isn’t ready to fully move on, and she hasn’t let go of the feelings she has for you.
Don’t worry if you weren’t too smooth over the phone. You didn’t have to have all the answers. Don’t push her and don’t ask a lot of questions that may make her feel uncomfortable. Let it be a humorous occurrence, and don’t take it too seriously. Let her say whatever she feels that she needs to say. When she sounds like she wants to get off the phone, let her go without putting up a fight. Reinforce that you enjoyed hearing from her. Don’t worry about what it all meant. It doesn’t have to make sense right now.
She Flaunts Her Singleness In Front Of You
The chances of getting back together fluctuate depending on how long its been since the breakup. Sometimes it’s naturally to feel a growing sense of disconnection, and she’ll gradually start to move away on her own. In order to get her back in this scenario, you need to take action fast. You need to make her start to miss you again, and make her long for the relationship that you used to have.
Other times, your ex will start moving towards you again and give hints that she’s looking to reconnect. Knowing the signs and being aware of her behavior will help you make the right moves at the right times to increase your chance of success. If she’s making obvious and blatant attempts to let you know she’s available, it’s a sure sign that she is trying to get your attention and lead you to ask her out.
Ideally, she’s looking to knock your socks off. She wants you to pay attention to her and let you know that she’s available for the taking if you’re still interested. She may feel uncomfortable around you if she’s the one that ended things, and it’s a difficult hurdle to overcome. Her single status is a way of overcoming her shy demeanor, and she will probably make it blatantly obvious to you every chance she gets. If she starts mentioning that she’s lonely or that guys don’t seem to be paying attention to her lately, it’s likely that she’s throwing a huge hint in your direction.
She Wants to Hang Out
For weeks (or months) she’s been avoiding the sight of you like the plague, and now she wants to meet for a beer. This is one of the biggest signs that her feelings for you are starting to change and she’s interested in more than just friendship. Chances are she’s been mulling something over in her head and she wants to talk to you in person. What she has to say just can’t be said over the phone. Before you get your hopes up, play it politely but cool. If you seem too eager, she might take off on you again.
This step doesn’t automatically mean that she’s ready to hop back into a relationship. She may be trying to test the dynamic between you and see if that old spark is still there. The key to this stage is to move slowly and not rush – try to see where she is and go with the flow. If she’s showing signs of wanting to spend time with you though, she’s probably missing you quite a bit. Take it easy and let the situation unfold naturally.
She’s Not Showing Any Of These Signs – What Do I Do?
It can be hard to know what’s going through your ex’s mind at any given moment. She acts crazy and bi-polar. One minute she’s screaming at you and the next she’s vanished without a trace. Maybe she’s gone to find some space to avoid the pain of running into you unexpectedly. Maybe she’s just thrown herself into other hobbies to keep herself occupied.
The trick now is to get her attention back. This is a top priority and should be done quickly in order to regain your chances. But how you do it is just as important as the steps that you take.
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