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Get My Ex Girlfriend To Miss Me – Follow These Steps

Getting your ex girlfriend to miss you is actually a lot easier than you think. Nothing that you have been doing so far is working, so it is time for you to take a different approach. To make her miss you it is essential that you understand the female mind and how they tick. There is no point in looking at things from a male perspective. It just wont work. Women are complicated creatures, they don’t always say what they mean and can be kind of confusing. When you learn to read the signs though and implement strategies that she will respond to, you will get her to miss you faster than you think.

There are certain behaviours that you must avoid at all costs if you want to get your ex girlfriend to miss you and pine for you. These disastrous faux pas will make her see you negatively and in an unattractive light. You need to have the opposite affect on her. She needs to see you like she once did. So, avoid these post breakup mistakes at all costs. Soon you will see a change in her behaviour towards you.

Contacting Her Too Much

This is probably the most obvious mistake. Think about it. How can you make your ex girlfriend miss you if you are always contacting her? You maybe think that if you keep reminding her of you, she will pine and remember the good times. Not so I’m afraid. It will only have the opposite affect on her. Don’t be afraid that she will forget about you if you don’t keep in touch. She doesn’t have the memory of a fish. She will be thinking about you after the breakup. It is a natural human reaction.

If you find yourself sending her constant texts, emails, snapchats, Facebook messages etc, you are doing things completely wrong. PLEASE STOP! She obviously isn’t responding to this tactic, so it is time to change tack. The more texts she receives from you, the more she will take you for granted. This is just female psychology. If something or someone is too available to them they will not see it as special or dear. They will intrinsically know that it is easy to get and therefore it will automatically be devalued in their mind. Sad isn’t it? You don’t want to be taken for granted or seen as cheap and unimportant. That will do nothing for your confidence or self worth.

Look at how your behaviour looks to her for a second. Put yourself in her shoes and it will lead to a drastic change in your behaviour and outlook. Let’s say that your ex girlfriend was sending you repeated texts, pleading on you to give it another go, asking you numerous leading questions. It will start to get on your nerves. You will quickly view her as a stalker, mentally unstable and unattractive. Perhaps you would think that she hasn’t accepted the breakup and she is trying to get you back through pleading, manipulation and guilt. It’s not attractive is it? It is actually very sad and pitiful behaviour. THIS IS HOW YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND VIEWS YOU at the moment. I hate to break it to you, but this is the truth and you need to face up to it and fast if you are to stand any chance of getting your ex girlfriend back and making her miss you.

Every time she gets a text from you she will be rolling her eyes. “not again” she will say to herself. Sadly, the longer that this goes on, the more she will start to view you as needy and pathetic. She will start to feel sorry for you and be finding ways to get you out of her life. You could soon find that she starts to ignore your texts and emails in a desperate effort to give you a hint – she is just not interested.

It doesn’t have to be this way though. Things look bad now but you can turn things around by understanding how your actions will appear to her. Right now, the most effective thing that you can do is to just stop. That’s right, STOP. No more texts, emails, snap chats, or bumping into your ex girlfriend. This will have a dramatic impact on your ex girlfriend. Suddenly she will sit up and take notice of you again. She will be wondering where you have gone. She has been relying on the fact that she would hear from you every day. Not anymore. Now she will have to do the chasing. Now she will be the emotional and confused one, not knowing where she stands with you.

Facebook Updates Constantly

It is a common mistake after a breakup to constantly update your Facebook wall and post endless selfies of you out with friends, having a great time. Your ex girlfriend will see your updates, in fact, she will be looking out for them as she is interested in what you are up to post breakup.

When you post on Facebook you will look desperate. She will know that your desperate attempts to portray a busy and fun-filled social calender are for her benefit. It smacks of desperation and it will look like you are trying too hard and pretending that all is well when it isn’t. Sometimes it is just better to do nothing, it has a greater impact on your ex girlfriend.

If it looks as if you are not bothered about updating your profile, then you mustn’t really care about what she thinks. Also, it will say lots to her about how busy you are. If you always find the time to update your wall, you must be sitting inside and not going out as much as you say. Alternatively, when you disappear from social media, you are living your life to the fullest and not living vicariously through a screen. She will start to fill in the blanks for herself and imagine all sorts. You must be out on the town with your mates, or a new girl? Her paranoia will kick in and this is when she will panic, reaching out to you for validation.

The most obvious reason why you should stay away from social media is to give your ex girlfriend the chance to miss you. If you are still socially present, she will still have a very personal window into your life. It is as if you never left her. She knows what you are thinking, who you are talking to, where you have been and what your plans are. If you are giving her all of the info that she craves she will never make the effort to contact you herself. It is only when you take this information away from her, will she start to see a void in her life. She will miss you when she doesn’t know what you are up to. She will have all of these unanswered questions that need to be answered.

It takes a lot of self control on your part, but the payoff is immense. This is an incredibly powerful way to make your ex girlfriend miss you and fast. You will be surprised how fast she picks up the phone to speak to you, asking how you are. Just watch.

Feeble Attempts To Make Her Jealous

You have probably heard that making your ex girlfriend will make her jealous and provoke a reaction from her. It will, but not the one that you had hoped for. Do you want her to view you as an unfeeling moron who is stomping all over her feelings and not caring about her? That is how she is going to view you if you start parading around with a new girl in front of her. How is she going to miss you if you do this? You may think that she will suddenly realise what she is missing out on. Not so. She will only see an insensitive asshole who she is well rid of. Instead of missing you, she will be glad that you have split up and will be trying her best to avoid you at all costs.

You have to play things very differently if you want her to miss you. This includes being the guy that she fell for in the first place so that she remembers the good times. Remember that she will have to see you in a positive light if she is to miss you and want you back. You want to provoke an emotional response from her, but not a negative one. You don’t want her to end up hating you. It is best to play it safe here and not use jealousy as a tactic in getting her back unless you know what you are doing. Jealousy needs to be used subtly to get a positive response from your ex girlfriend.

You Have To Give Her Time

You are ready to get back together, you miss her terribly and you want her to feel the exact same way. It doesn’t work like this though. You have to give her time to process the breakup and work out how she feels. Demanding that she feels a certain way or getting frustrated with her for not feeling the same as you, will ultimately backfire. You have to be patient with her and respect her need for space. She cannot be put under pressure to miss you, it has to come naturally to her.

If she sees that you are being understanding, kind and sensitive, it will look good for you. She will start to remember why she first fell in love with you and miss that. These are attractive qualities to her and she will be watching you for how you behave towards her after the breakup. You have probably heard of the saying ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ and this is true. You need to be absent from her life for a while to make her miss you and want you again. It is hard to hold back when you miss her like mad and all you want to do is talk to her and hold her again. You have to see the bigger picture though and realise that anything worth having is worth waiting for. It will be all the sweeter in the end.

What You Need To Do Now

Getting your ex girlfriend to miss you is only part of the puzzle. There are so many more things that you need to be doing right now to encourage your ex girlfriend to pine for you and want you back. You can’t rely on gut instinct here and advice from your friends either. You should be relying on proven psychological research that understands the female mind. She thinks and acts very differently to you, so going about things in a male way, will not work. If you want to be effective and get positive results, you need to get inside her head and think like her.

Luckily, psychologists and relationship experts have done this all for you. They have taken the confusion out of everything. You can watch the video above to learn more. The Text Your Ex Back System relies on years of research on human behaviour and pushes specific buttons in the female mind to make her miss you like crazy and want to respond to you. They will give you texting templates to send to your ex girlfriend to get a response from her. Teach you all about the female mind and what she wants from you post breakup. Click this link to get started.

You will also need to look out for the signs that your ex girlfriend still has feelings for you. This will give you an indication of where you stand and what your chances of a reconciliation are. Some signs are more subtle than others. Learn what they are here.

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