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My Ex Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me – What Do I Do Now?

It is common in a lot of relationship breakups. You wait for him to call, you sit clutching your phone, waiting for a text. You check your social media constantly, thinking that you have missed something. But there’s nothing. It is as if he has disappeared off the face of the planet. Not only is this incredibly painful, but it is proving more and more difficult for you to keep away from him. Every urge in you is telling you to pick up the phone. An innocent text to see how he is shouldn’t hurt, should it? 

The sad truth is that it will hurt. It will hurt you, and badly. If your ex boyfriend is ignoring you, he is doing it for a reason. Sending him constant texts and emails will not work in your favour. In fact, it can have the opposite effect that you want. If you think that you can coerce your ex boyfriend into talking to you again, you need a reality check. I’m afraid that it doesn’t work that way.

The thing is, you want him to want to contact you again. You don’t want him to feel guilty and forced into talking to you again. This will just be awkward and make him feel sorry for you. It will negatively impact your chances of getting him back too. It is a fine line to walk, but it can be done. You can actually make him eager to contact you, just like it was in the old days, when you first got together.

You have to go about this completely differently if you want him to stop ignoring you and actually want to communicate with you again. The good news is that this is possible and it is actually kind of easy once you start to understand male psychology. But more about that later. First you need to understand why your ex boyfriend ignores you, so that you can nip this behaviour in the bud and open the channels of communication again.

Why Your Ex Boyfriend Is Avoiding You

Things are never quite what they seem. Just because your ex boyfriend is ignoring you, it doesn’t mean that he hates you are he wants you to disappear. It could be quite the opposite in fact. After a relationship breakdown emotions are fraught, your feelings are confused and you just need time to process what has happened. This is natural.

He Is Confused

Do you think he just turned his feelings off for you like a tap? Luckily it doesn’t work like that. Even if he was the one who broke up with you, he will be dealing with a lot of residual feelings for you and trying to process them. It is likely that he is confused about these mixed feelings, so taking himself away from you seems like the best solution right now. He cannot work out how he really feels about you if he is always around you, that would be too hard for him. He needs space too.

He Feels Awkward Around You

Another reason why your ex boyfriend is ignoring you after the breakup is because things feel awkward. You feel this awkwardness too, don’t you? It is hard to know how he should interact with you in the days and weeks after your split. You can hardly go back to how things were, affection and normal conversation are a bit too much to ask. Both of your feelings are hurt. This awkwardness will dissipate over time, but right now respecting his space is key. You want to give him the time to come to terms with what has happened and come to the conclusion that he misses you. He cannot miss you if you are constantly in touch with him, can he? The more you text or call him, the more he will retreat into himself. Take a step back now if you are to have any chance of winning him back down the road.

He Is Trying To Protect You From More Hurt

Perhaps he just doesn’t want to see you upset. Every time you see eachother after the break up, there are tears, too many questions, confusion and anger. No one wants to face that all the time. Maybe all of the heightened emotions are too much for him to deal with at the moment. He doesn’t know what to say to you to make you feel better, so he has taken the decision to detach from you until your emotions have calmed down. The last thing that he wants to do is to apologise constantly for what went wrong or feel under pressure to answer a barrage of questions from you. It is just too awkward. The more pressure that you put on him to talk, the more likely he is to clam up and skulk off into dark corners, leaving you even more confused.

He Wants To Make You Suffer

It is difficult to face up to, but perhaps your ex boyfriend wants to make you suffer. Maybe a lot of ugly and nasty things were said when you were breaking up. It’s normal. Things get said in the heat of the moment when both parties are emotional, things that cannot be unsaid. He will remember everything that came out of your mouth and he could still be reeling from it. He has feelings too. You still have the capacity to hurt him deeply with your words. He will care what you think of him, despite your breakup.

He Is Trying To Provoke A Reaction

Wanting to punish your ex is a typical reaction to a breakup. One that is all too common. Maybe he wants to get a reaction from you and feels that ignoring you is the most effective method there is. The more you add fuel to the fire, by nagging him and sending him texts, the more he will feel justified in ignoring you. You are telling him very clearly that his technique is working well and that he should keep it up. He expects you to progressively get more and more desperate to hear from him. He wants an emotional response from you. DON’T GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS! Take the high road and act like it doesn’t matter. You will soon see a change in behaviour from him. When panic sets in that you are not bothered anymore.

He Is Grieving

Your Boyfriend is going through a mourning period. Breaking up is a grieving process and it takes time. He probably is angry towards you, has all of these confused feelings and bottled up hurt. It will take some time before you hear from him again. He could want to do things on his own terms and make you wait. Sometimes you have to accept this and be patient. The more that you push, the more you will be hit with a blank screen and an empty inbox.

He Thinks You Are Crazy

Another reason why an ex boyfriend ignores his ex girlfriend is kind of obvious. I hate to say it, but he could just want to get away from you because he thinks you are crazy. Admit it. You have been barraging him with emotional messages, sending him emails, contacting him on Facebook and asking his friends how he is. Heck, you have probably stalked him in the hope to just ‘accidentally’ bump into him. You foolishly thought that he wouldn’t notice, that you were being subtle. Sadly, he will be watching you and your behaviour very closely after the breakup. He will know what you are up to and he will be starting to get alarmed.

It is normal to be an emotional wreck post breakup, but you cannot let him see you like this. Please refrain from sending him romantic, angry or pleading texts. Not only will it make you look highly unattractive and desperate, he will begin to see you as mentally unstable and worry for his own wellbeing. The last thing that he wants is for him to leave his home and find you standing there with a long range camera in the bushes, trying to get a glimpse of him and figure out where he is off to.

The more you try to contact him and find out how he feels, the more crazy and unstable you will look to him. He will be afraid of you at worst, and pity you at best. You don’t want him to feel either of these things if you want to get back together. He has to be attracted to you and this won’t happen if you are behaving like a crazed lunatic who has just escaped from a mental asylum. Take a step back, or four, and honestly ask yourself how your behaviour looks to your ex. Then you can start to change the way your ex boyfriend sees you and make headway in winning back his heart.

You Have to Make Him Want To Talk To You

You can’t do this through romantic pleas or using coercion and manipulation. You have to be cleverer than this. The best way is to make him want to reach out and contact you of his own volition. Make him think that it is own choice. Not through guilt or pity either, but because he genuinely misses you and wants to see what you are up to. You may think that this is an impossible task given that you have already made a massive fool of yourself and he seems completely adverse to any communication with you. Never fear though, you can turn things around when you understand a little bit about male psyche.

If you play your cards right, he could be sending you a text within the next week. It is up to you, the more self control you have, the quicker you will see a text from your ex boyfriend in your inbox.

The truth is, your ex boyfriend has read all of the texts you have sent him. He has listened to your drunk voicemails that you wish you could erase. He has seen all of your posts on Facebook and your social media updates. He even knows that you have been asking his friends and family about him. He knows it all, every sordid detail. Unfortunately you cannot take these actions back or hit a reset button in his brain so that he forgets completely about these things. What you can do now is to change how he views you for good.

The easiest way to do this to stop communicating with him completely. That’s right. Pull the plug. Go incognito for a while, make him think that you have fallen down a big black hole never to be seen again. This just doesn’t mean that you stop sending him personal texts and messages. Oh no. You have to go the whole hog here. Your Facebook and other social media platforms will not be seeing you for a while either. I am serious about this, and you should be too if you really want him back.

Staying off social media, snap chat etc, is a VERY POWERFUL strategy in winning back his affections. Not only will it make him sit up suddenly and take notice of you again, it will make him start to wonder, where has she gone? Is she alright? Is she over me? Is she seeing someone new? Why is she suddenly ignoring me now? See how effective this is? In one fell swoop you have managed to turn the tables on him and taken the power back. Now you are in control. That is a very liberating feeling and one that you should be using to its full potential.

Okay, so you have turned off your social media accounts, deactivated them even. Now you can start to make changes in your own life. You should be using this quiet time constructively. Think of it as YOU TIME. You deserve it after all of those countless hours blubbering into your pillow. Get back your confidence. Go out with friends, get an new outfit, a new haircut. Anything that makes you feel good about yourself again. If you start behaving like the old you, it will not go unnoticed by your ex boyfriend. Soon word will spread that you are happy, busy and social again. These are attractive traits remember. Sitting sulking and lamenting in your pjs is not the look you want to go for here.

You will be surprised just how effective these little changes can be. Before long, you will hear from your ex boyfriend. He has been used to your constant contact for weeks. Now it is dead silent. Eerily quiet. He doesn’t like it. His male ego is taking a knock as he realised that he is not getting the attention anymore. He secretly enjoyed the fact that he had you wrapped around his little finger, that you would jump if he said so. He wanted to be in control. He has lost that control now and you have taken it back. Now he has to make the effort and reach out to you.

Let’s take a second and learn what will be going through your ex boyfriend’s mind when you cease contact. Men are not complicated creatures. They will react largely in the same way when they don’t hear from you again. When your ex does contact you again, you can take it as a huge hint that he still has feelings for you, otherwise he just wouldn’t bother making the effort.

Your evident lack of interest and communication will send him off into panic mode. He will become extremely paranoid and his mind will be imagining all sorts. He pretty much counted on the fact that he would keep hearing from you and that he could snap his fingers whenever he wanted and you would come running. Now that you have made it clear that this isn’t going to happen, he is starting to worry. He will also start to experience a lot of paranoia at this stage. His mind will be imagining all sorts. Perhaps you have found a new guy and are out having fun, getting over him fast. Maybe you just don’t care about him anymore? Your feelings have changed and you have given up on him.

Either way, he won’t want you to forget about him if he still loves you. The very real threat of losing you for good will make him take fast and decisive action. He will have to reach out to you if he stands any chance of rekindling your relationship. Best thing is, you didn’t have to plead on him to contact you, he will do that all by himself. Reverse psychology is a powerful thing.

Making him miss you is key to getting him to stop ignoring you. How can he miss you if you are always there barraging him with calls and texts? It is a common misconception that your ex boyfriend will forget about you and move on if he doesn’t hear from you. Women think that they have to remind their exes that they still exist. Not so. Creating a sense of mystery is a good thing. Not being available all the time is attractive. Making him miss you is a very compelling feeling, one that will encourage him to act.

What To Do When Your Ex Boyfriend Contacts You

It is all well and good having a strategy in place to get your ex boyfriend to speak to you again, but what do you do when you hear that beep from his number? Do you ignore him and let him stew or do you tell him that you love him and want him back? It is crucial that you play it right if you want him back. There is no point in doing all that hard work cutting contact if you are going to blow it as soon as he calls. You need to take a proven approach.

Knowing what to say to him, how often to contact him, when to reply and how to act, are essential components in getting back your ex boyfriend. If he shows up at your door unexpectedly, you will need to know how to interact with him to leave him wanting more. Luckily there are proven psychological strategies that can drill into his mind. Ones that have been effective for thousands of other girls in your situation. It would be a bad idea to go into this blind and hope for the best. You might just find yourself back at square one with your ex boyfriend wanting nothing to do with you.

Being as prepared as possible will stop you from making embarrassing mistakes that will put him off you for good. There are psychologists that have done a lot of research into male psychology for you and will give you exactly what you need to know to get the best results. Don’t worry, they have cut out the boring sciency bits and get straight to the point. One such system is the Text Your Ex Back System. Based on years of psychological research, you can start to use simple texts to encourage your ex to love you again. It will break down exactly what to do in each situation. When to contact him, how long to wait between texts and what to say. That is not all though. There are so many more tricks and strategies that you should be using to get faster results. Click the video above to learn about your next steps and what you should be doing now to increase your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back.

 

Make Your Ex Boyfriend Jealous – Psychology To Win Him Back

How To Make An Ex Boyfriend Jealous After Your Breakup

So, you’re at rock bottom. It hurts after the breakup, especially when he seems to have moved on whilst you are still crazy about him. Your ex boyfriend doesn’t seem to care about you anymore and is ignoring you. You’re eager to reach out and contact him to get any kind of reaction. It’s the not knowing that is killing you. It is so important to hold back at this point though because how you look to your ex is a vital factor in making them jealous and getting them back.

You need to change tactics now to get him to sit up and notice you again. One of the best ways that you can achieve this is through JEALOUSY. That’s right, the green-eyed monster is an incredibly effective tool that you have in your arsenal to get a reaction from your ex boyfriend. Want to know how? First we have to understand why your ex boyfriend is behaving the way he is. 

His Behaviour Post Break Up

After a breakup your ex boyfriend is either feeling relieved or hurt. The last thing that he probably wants to do right now is contact you. He doesn’t want to lose face, it is a male ego thing. That doesn’t mean that he has moved on and has no more feelings for you. In fact, it could be quite the opposite. Maybe he wants you to make the first move. Maybe he is still angry with you and wants you to suffer and miss him. Maybe he is trying to get a reaction out of you too. It is a minefield of hot emotions after a split. People do all sorts of crazy things because feelings are fraught. 

Your ex boyfriend could be just as afraid of rejection as you are. That is why he is sitting tight, waiting for any clues from you that you are still interested in him. He may not want to appear weak in front of you either. If he is hurt about what happened, the last thing that he wants to risk is more heartbreak. So staying away from you and pretending that he doesn’t care may seem like the safest option for him right now. 

He may also just need time to process his feelings about your relationship and work out what went wrong. Having you around would only confuse the situation even more. Space after a breakup is a healthy thing, for you too. Try to respect his need for space immediately after your split. It’ll make you look a lot more reasonable and approachable when he is ready to make contact again. 

Why Jealousy Is So Effective

There is a reason why many people use jealousy as their number one weapon in getting back an ex. It works it is works well. This is because jealousy provokes a strong emotional response from your ex boyfriend. It also creates a sense of urgency as you could be slipping away from him. Adrenaline will rise and he will panic. This is when he is most likely to react and contact you, whether he is angry or apologetic. 

It is also an age-old strategy that millions of people have used to quickly ascertain whether your ex boyfriend still has any feelings for you. If there is no reaction from him, then you can be pretty sure that he really has moved on. If he gets defensive, angry, upset or starts to contact you again, asking questions, then it is more than likely that he still holds feelings for you.

It is a much more effective strategy than writing emotional love letters to him, sending him constant texts and following him around like a lost puppy. It instantly makes you desirable to him again and changes his negative views towards you. It also encourages him to fight for you and makes him feel threatened that you could be lost forever to someone else or that you are getting over the relationship faster than he is. 

If you can get an emotional response from him, all of the good memories of your relationship will come flooding back to him and he will be much more open to a reconciliation. This being said though, there are so many different ways that you can use jealousy to your advantage. Some are more drastic and obvious than others. It depends upon how you want to play it. You could go all out and parade yourself in front of him with another guy, or you could take the more subtle approach so that he is unaware that you are even trying to make him jealous – a much more effective option. 

A Word Of Caution – When Jealousy Can Backfire on You

The last thing that you want your boyfriend to do is get suspicious and work out that you are trying to make him jealous. This would be an epic fail for you and end up making you appear desperate, foolish and manipulative. These are ugly and unattractive traits. You are trying to make your ex boyfriend want you again, remember?

That is why you have to approach the situation with a plan of action. You have to think about how you are going to make him jealous and make it look like your aren’t doing anything. Subtlety is key here. 

When you plaster selfies of yourself and your new love interest all over Facebook and Instagram, it is glaringly obvious what you are trying to do. The more you push for a reaction from him, the more you will push him away. 

This is also a dangerous strategy in that it will make your ex boyfriend view you negatively. The last thing that you want is for him to start hating you. Do you want appear as if you are underhand and manipulative? You want him to trust you right? You want him to want to give it another go. So, if he thinks that you are sluttish, have moved on quickly, or don’t care about his feelings, you will have lost your chance with him for good. 

Being too obvious is a no no. It makes you seem childish, immature and dishonest. You are trying to open the channels of communication again, not close them down for good. So, what are the best ways of using jealousy then? 

Jealousy Tactic 1 – Patience

Sometimes the best way that you can make your ex boyfriend jealous is to disappear for a while. Doubt breeds jealousy. When he doesn’t know where you have gone, if you are not on Facebook, if he isn’t getting texts from you, like he expected, this can quickly lead to the kind of jealousy that will eat away at him. He will be wondering why you are not in contact and be going through all sorts of scenarios in his head about what you are up to. Naturally he will think that you have moved on with someone else, or that you have already gotten over him.

This is a brilliant way to use jealousy in a subtle way. In fact, you are doing very little apart from engaging in self control. When you take yourself out of the picture he will begin to get paranoid. The best thing about this is that he will have no clue what you are doing, or that it was even your intention. You will start to become attractive and mysterious to him again and maintain your dignity. This tactic also forces his hand. He will be forced to make the first move and reach out and contact you.

Staying off social media is a must. That means no updates on Facebook, no cryptic tweets intended for him, no selfies for him to see what he is missing. It should be as if you have disappeared. If you want it to be effective you have to be patient. The longer you are way from all forms of contact, the faster he will notice that you have gone and the wheels will start to turn in his head. 

Patiently wait for him to miss you. Don’t go rushing in like a bull in a china shop. It can take time to stir up jealousy in your ex boyfriend and jealousy is something that he probably didn’t even expect to feel after the breakup. 

Jealousy Tactic 2 – Act Like You Have Moved On

Nothing will make your ex boyfriend jealous like showing him that you have moved on. He probably hopes that he will be the one to move on first. He didn’t count on the fact that you would be getting on with your life and happy again, just as if the breakup never happened. 

You should start posting on Facebook again about going out with friends and having fun. You don’t have to appear ecstatic or fill your diary with social engagements every day, but you do have to try and get on with your life and make him see that you are. If you appear positive and willing to get out there again, it is an attractive trait, much better than wallowing in self pity and hiding away in your bedroom clutching at the tissue box. 

Seeing that you are much better than he expected will make him feel jealousy. He will be jealous that he is not handling things as well as you are. He will start to ask himself why and begin to panic about what this actually means. If he thinks that you have slipped away and are over him, he is much more likely to bite the bullet and contact you.

Jealousy Tactic 3 – Start To Date Again

Just to be clear, dating guys again does not mean that you plaster pics of you throwing yourself at men all over your social media! It is better to go about things quietly. You would be surprised how fast news like this travels anyway. You don’t have to be the one who tells your ex boyfriend that you are dating again. In fact, it is much better if he hears it from someone else. His friends will be looking out for him and the news will get back to him fast. He will also be keeping a close eye on you and what you are doing post breakup, he can deduce that you are seeing someone else, even when you don’t explicitly say it. 

Once your ex boyfriend sees that you are with someone else, it will do major things to his jealousy levels. It will send him into a panic and make him act rashly. Don’t be surprised if you see him angry, or hear from him again all of a sudden. 

Please don’t rub salt in the wound though. If you parade your new love interests in his face it will look terribly bad on you. It will also turn your ex boyfriend off you for good as he will see you as untrustworthy and sly. You still have to have integrity here and think of his feelings. The feelings of the guy you are dating are important too. Be clear with him that you don’t want anything serious. Even better, find some new guy friends and spend time with them. That way you are not leading anyone on and your ex boyfriend can assume what he likes.

Your Next Step – Get Inside His Head

There are other tactics that you can start using now to make your ex boyfriend jealous and reconsider the breakup. Not only that, you can use so many more techniques that will play on male psychology to make him desire you again. Even if he is denying that he still likes you now. It is up to you to bring these latent feelings to the surface and coax them out. You need to understand what you are doing though or you could end up looking like a crazy stalker.

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How To Make My Ex Boyfriend Chase Me

How Do I Make My Ex Boyfriend Chase Me?

31551C802A5AC1EE5839FE1E0CD0Making Your Ex Boyfriend chase you is a difficult concept to get your head around, especially if you have just broken up an your ex boyfriend seems completely disinterested.

There is one course of action post-breakup that should be avoided at all costs if you’re hoping to win back your ex-boyfriend’s heart. You cannot chase him into reluctantly agreeing to give your relationship another chance. You should not be using overt methods at all. What you should pay attention to now are the tips and tricks that can get your ex to chase after you again. While it seems far-fetched, it is possible if you know how to behave post-breakup.

If you’ve ever had to chase down an escaped pet, you know how futile pursing them can be. The more you chase them, the faster they’re likely to run away from you. It’s only after you stop the pursuit that the animal you’re chasing will look around to see where you are – and most likely come trotting back to you without a second thought. While this strategy seems simplistic, it’s also quite profound.

There is nothing that you need to say to your ex right now that cannot wait until later. Stop thinking about all of the things you should have said so that you’re tempted to reach out and get in touch with him again. If you sincerely want to get our relationship back, you need to resist there impulses at all costs and focus on methods that actually give you a shot towards success.

How To Maintain Post Breakup Contact

qsm-img11One of the biggest mistakes you can make post-breakup is to continually try to insert yourself into your ex-boyfriend’s life once things are over. Like it or not, your relationship is at an end the moment that your ex-boyfriend calls it off.

Emotionally, the breakup can last a lot longer, and it’s likely that both of you are going to be wallowing in a lot of post-breakup negativity. Recognizing that this negativity is going to continue for a certain amount of time is pivotal towards moving to correct it – but you can’t just jump right in and try to get to work immediately following your breakup. There is a time and place for everything – and you and your ex both need to get some perspective and distance in order to come to a place of healing where reconciliation even becomes possible.

Keeping Your Distance From Him – How Important It Is

You’re not going to like this part, but you need to establish and maintain a no-contact policy once your relationship comes to an end. This is as much for your benefit as it is for your ex-boyfriends. This distance will allow two pivotal things to happen – and until they do, there is virtually no realistic way to piece a broken relationship back together again.

First, this distance will allow both of you to come to a realization about how much you truly miss each other. While you’re already certain that you miss your ex, he may be a little more reluctant to admit it – even to himself. It’s going to take time, and it’s going to take a complete and total absence on your part to bring it about. If you’re always around, he never has to miss you. He has you right there, and he doesn’t have to find out what life is like without him.

Secondly, it will allow some of the negativity to dissipate, and it will allow the hurt feelings to cool off a little bit. It may not seem like a big deal upfront, but it makes a hugely positive impact on the rest of your chances moving forward.

Keeping away from your ex boyfriend just not just mean in the physical world either. You need to stop all types of contact with him. Nowadays there is sensory overload with so much fast and easy communication methods. Get off Facebook for a few weeks and stop updating your wall in the hopes that your ex boyfriend will see what he is missing. It never works out the way that you think it will. Instead you will look desperate, needy and attention-seeking. The last thing that you want is for your ex boyfriend to think that you are trying to get his attention. How humiliating would that be?

The best thing that you can do in this situation is to disappear for a while and then he will start to wonder where you are. When you are not signed in on instant chat, not commenting or liking friend’s posts, he will be unsure of how you are and what is up. That is when he is most likely to reach out to you in concern.

He will be checking your Facebook wall after the breakup, no matter how messy your split was. It is only natural to be curious about your ex. He is relying on the fact that he can still see what you are up to and keep tabs on your life via Facebook. He knows that he doesn’t have to make a personal effort to stay in touch with you then. Do not make it that easy for him or give him the satisfaction.

If you want an ex boyfriend to chase you then you have to practice some self control. Staying off Facebook for a while may seem like an impossible task, but you will be glad that you did. It can be an emotionally draining platform where you read into everything way too much. Do yourself a favour and just unplug for a while. 

Why You Must Agree With And Accept The Breakup

The key to any successful reconciliation is keeping your ex-boyfriend on your toes and refusing to give in to his preconceived expectations. The last thing that he will be expecting when he breaks up with you is for you to turn around and agree to all of his reasons for ending the relationship. He expects you to put up a fight. If you agree to his justifications for walking away, you’re going to catch him completely off-guard. He’s not going to know what to say, and everything that he thought he knew about the breakup is going to be blown completely out of the water.

He’s going to have to completely reevaluate his situation. Instead of being the one to take the initiative to end things, he’s suddenly going to feel the need to defend your relationship – from you. He’s going to start thinking of all of the positive aspects of your relationship, rather than focusing on the things that caused it to fall apart. This is going to be a strange position for him, and it’s not going to be anything that ever occurred to him before now.

Strange as it may sound, you will actually gain more respect from him if you are not begging and pleading on him to give the relationship another go. You will come across as independent and he will realise that your life does not revolve around him. These are highly attractive traits that you should be exuding at all times. Your ex boyfriend thinks that he has you completely figured out. He has played over in his head how you would react to the breakup and thinks that he knows you inside out. Show him that he doesn’t and that there is more depth and strength of character than he imagined. This will quickly get him to take notice of you again and rethink his decision to break up with you. 

You Have Other Options Too

While all of these methods are proven to work, they’re not the only options that you should be focusing on. In fact, you should read up on as many reconciliation techniques as possible so that you can be prepared for whatever comes your way. By gaining knowledge and being able to head any potential problems off at the pass you can move forward in the reconciliation process and turn the tables in your favor.

The Importance Of Playing Hard To Get

5_How_to_forgive_him_to_get_him_backIt may immediately sound like you are playing mind games with your ex boyfriend. This is all part of the courtship game though and you need to be aware of it if you are to attract male attention in the future. The animal kingdom does it as well. It is all about psychology. You have probably seen certain girls that aren’t that funny, good looking or intelligent attract loads of guys. Maybe you have scratched your head and wondered what do they have that I haven’t?

Truth is that these girls have a certain charisma or charm that draws guys in like moths. You can have that too. There is no reason that you cannot be like those girls. It can be easily learned. 

There is a certain push and pull aspect to courtship. A guy will think that you are worth fighting for if you do not offer everything to him on a plate. You have to withhold part of yourself in the beginning to make him want to get to know you better. When a girl is mysterious she will naturally draw more attention from the male species.

Just take a look at the women around you. You know the types that are easy and dress up for the men because that is their main goal in life. They have very little else to offer a guy in terms of personality or intellect, so they use their bodies and looks to attract the opposite sex. They might get lots of superficial interest from males in the beginning, but no worthwhile guy will want to stay with a girl like this. These types of relationships are doomed to failure and are usually sort lived. This is because the guy doesn’t respect this type of girl. They just see her in physical terms. Lust wears off quickly. You want to be able to offer him more so that his interest in you is ongoing. 

Keeping this in mind after the breakup is essential if you want your ex boyfriend to chase you, just like he did when you first met. You have to realise your self worth or he never will. You don’t want to behave like these desperate superficial girls out in the clubs whose main purpose in life is to get male attention. That gets boring very quickly and he will be able to see through it if he has a brain in his head. 

Being guarded and not giving him everything at once is actually very attractive. He will immediately sit up and take notice of you again and start to wonder if the break up was a good idea. If you stop chasing him and replying to his texts, calls or emails immediately he will think that you are worth fighting for. Attraction is strange. When you don’t seem that interested or have a busy full life, you will immediately rise in his estimation and he will want to spend more time with you and know more. Men get bored very fast if they don’t have to fight for you. It is hard wired into the male psyche that they are the predator. They want to do the chasing because of the adrenaline rush. It is a natural instinct that you should allow to take place. Your ex boyfriend wants to chase you, not the other way round. 

Your Next Steps – Make Him Addicted To You

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Getting your ex boyfriend to see you the way that he did before you first got together is the trick. Somewhere along the way you both got too comfortable with each other and the intrigue, passion and respect dwindled. It is not too late to change his mind about you. It is actually quite easy to make your ex boyfriend see you the way he once did. All you have to do is to understand the male mind and what is attractive to them. 

Chances are that you have been doing all the wrong things in the last weeks of your relationship and the period following your break up. Your ex boyfriend doesn’t respect you right now and this is key if you want him to start seeing you in a romantic light again. Luckily you can reverse this quite quickly by enacting certain behaviours that he will sit up and take notice of. 

Click here to watch the video to learn more about this powerful system and find out what you need to be doing right now. 

 The Ex Boyfriend System

This system will help you to get close to your ex boyfriend again and change how he sees you. You have to accept the fact that you changed in his eyes, otherwise you wouldn’t have broken up. You want to get him to see you like he use to when you first started dating. You can reignite these old feelings of attachment and encourage him to see you as mysterious, interesting, attractive and addictive.

By using key male psychological triggers he will start to interact with you again and show you interest. In essence you will be pulling him back towards you and he won’t even know that you are doing anything. These techniques are powerful, so please only use them on him if you are serious about getting him back or he could end up with a broken heart. 

Click here to watch the free video and find out more about this powerful system. 

Signs Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You

Signs Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You

– What To Look Out For

If you find yourself in the frustrating position of trying to fix a broken relationship with an ex, before you do anything else you should try to figure out if there’s a good reason to continue.

Letting go can be extremely hard, but it’s harder still to put a lot of effort into something that’s doomed to fail. If your ex is not displaying any tell-tale signs that they’re interested in getting back together, your efforts may all be in vain.

You try to find hidden meaning in everything he does or says, but you could just be projecting your wishes onto his behavior. Don’t take something here and run with it – just because one indicator may be present doesn’t mean he’s definitely up for reconnecting. You want to ensure that you’ve correctly followed the step by step direction that can be found in the Get Him Back Forever System.

Women’s Common Mistakes

It’s easy to go about this the wrong way. Most women’s first instinct to finding out the true feelings of their ex-boyfriend is to go running to his friends for information or by asking him leading questions to see if they can dig up anything useful. None of these efforts are under the radar and they’re very easily discovered – all they do is make you look silly in the process. Would you respect someone that was going around behind your back? Chances are you would feel the same way your ex probably does if you’re doing that to him.

Facebook obsession is a growing trend among women in the social media age. They try to interpret every status message, every posted picture and every event that he attends to find a missing piece of the puzzle. They are looking for hope by diving into any possible thread that they can use to their advantage to save their relationship. All this does is make you feel insane and will probably lead to a lot of mixed feelings, frustration and even more confusion.

These two things are the worst possible choices if you really want to find out if your ex still has feelings for you. All eyes are on him, and he’s probably feeling very self-conscious about every post he makes. He wants to appear tough and in control – even if the split is killing him inside. He’ll put on a brave face and act strong. He’ll never truly allow his feelings to come out where everyone is watching. The male ego is a powerful, driving force and he’s not about to let the breakup come in the way of his pride. He wants everyone to believe that things are great. The trick is that he wants himself to believe it too, even though he knows it’s not true.

The Bonds Are Still Strong Between You

The bonds formed in a romantic relationship are difficult to overcome, and they aren’t simply severed overnight. These bonds are the reason for all the sadness after the breakup happened, and they’re the reason he’s still in your thoughts now. He’s feeling the same way you are. He is spending his time missing you – even if he’s the one who chose to end the relationship in the first place. His mind will naturally turn to you, and he’ll be curious about you. Couples who have parted ways often come to terms with the idea that they don’t want to continue alone – that’s why so many people get back together with an ex.

Even though all of that may be true, you still need to read the signs carefully to see if he’s missing you. Look at the way he communicates with you. How does he treat you? What is his body language telling you? Not taking everything at face value and looking deeper is a vital part of trying to decipher the male psyche and can give you a huge advantage in successfully getting back together. This plays a big part in how to make your ex boyfriend want you back.

He’s Maintaining Contact

If he’s convinced that staying in touch is a good idea, you can bet that he’s still interested in you. This could mean anything from emails to texts or random Facebook messages – staying in contact isn’t reserved just for the phone anymore. If he’s always trying to check on you and make sure that you’re doing okay, he’s making sweeping gestures to keep the door of possibility open and may be more inclined to reconciling.

If he’s trying to find excuses to see you or to spend time together, that’s an even bigger sign. As thrilled as it may make you feel, you still need to take some time apart immediately after breaking up. Once enough time has passed for both of you to cool down and get control of your emotions, trying to arrange get-togethers is a vital clue that he’s still interested.

If your ex-boyfriend is already dating, he’s more than likely ceased all contact with you completely. You should be anticipating this silent treatment and know that it probably won’t last. He’s trying to act in his own best interest and take steps to protect his new fling. This is even more likely if he has the suspicion that you’re still interested. If he’s still keeping the conversation with you open, he hasn’t been finding things that he’s looking for in any other potential partner. This could make the process of winning him back even quicker. While keeping in contact can be both positive and negative, if he’s the one that’s making the first effort, it’s almost always a positive thing.

He’s Suddenly Opening Up

You remember when you were together and you could barely get him to spill any information about his life before he ran into you? It was like pulling teeth to get him to divulge anything about his past or his history. Now he’s suddenly a fount of information and he can’t seem to wait to get it off of his chest. This is a huge sign that can be a definite clue that things can turn themselves around. Don’t expect this abrupt change of heart immediately after a breakup, but he may start to open up over time. He most likely is looking for assurance from you that he’s really okay and that the choices that he’s making are valid. He wants to know that he still has your support. Men like to leave the door of possibility ajar – this simple reality can be used to your advantage.

If he’s already appeared to move on and is already involved in a new relationship when he decides to spill his guts, this can be an even bigger indication that things are about to turn around. He’s valuing your repertoire and your bond. He’s trusting that you’ll keep his confidence. Re-establishing trust that was damaged during the breakup is a vital part to creating a more successful relationship going forward. It may be harder to win him back if he’s already with someone new, but it isn’t impossible.

He Brings Up The Past

An ex who still waxes poetic about your past memories isn’t ready to put the relationship behind them. He’s still thinking about the two of you together even though you’ve broken up. He’s probably facing a great deal of confusion and is unsure of which direction to turn. He is starting to wonder if the breakup was a good idea – or if he made a horrible mistake. He’s looking to see how you’re going to react to these memories and statements or if you’re going to share his sentiments.

He’ll start telling stories of past dates or mishaps that the two of you experienced. He may bring up places where the two of you used to frequent by telling you that he’s recently been. He’s reminding himself of the positive aspects of your relationship even though it ultimately fell apart. Once a breakup is complete, it’s easy to let go of all the negative aspects and focus on what originally made you happy together.

This could easily be your shining, golden opportunity. Every step you take should keep the same goal in the forefront of your mind – getting him to want you again and want to rekindle your relationship. He’s giving you everything you need to make that goal a reality. Feed into his memories. Remind him of other times that he may have forgotten. Offer up some encouragement. Share a laugh with him.

Unexpected Signs of Affection

If he’s suddenly being physically affectionate towards you, make sure that you check his motives. It’s easy for a man to show physically how they feel, especially when you’ve spent a lot of time together. Your ex probably misses all the physical aspects of your relationship, but they’re not limited to sex. He also misses the feeling of holding your hand, holding you at night or sharing a kiss.

More than physical affection, you should look for any signs of an emotional connection. Actions speak louder than words, so don’t just listen to what he has to say – examine how he’s behaving as well.

Women have an uncanny knack for knowing when a guy is just after a hook up – and you’ll know if he’s looking for something deeper as well. There are vast differences between the two and you need to look at the situation honestly, despite your hopes. You know you want the chance to have this man in your life again but you don’t want to do something that you could end up regretting either.

Take a few steps back and examine the relationship as a whole before you rush to judgment. Don’t let what you WISH was true become your reality only to be disappointed afterwards when it turns out that you were mistaken. Is a committed relationship really on his mind? Is he just interested in a little intimate moment because he misses the connection? You have to be able to tell the difference and make an informed decision based on the reality – not on what you wish the answer is.

Getting your ex back involves certain steps that should be handled in a certain order. This process is laid out easily in a step-by-step guide complete with a video that can guide you easily through this difficult process in Get Him Back Forever System.

He Wants You to Hang Out With the Guys

Spending time with you alone has been great, but if your ex starts inviting you to events in public with his circle of friends, he’s ready to show you off. This is a huge step for him to make and can be one of the final signs before you two are on the road to a brand new relationship. His friends will want to know why he’s hanging out with his ex, and he’s probably already answered them. He could see this as an opportunity to test the waters and may even consider you his “unofficial” girlfriend.

Make sure to show appreciation and affection to him if the night leads to a more romantic climate. Don’t get into any deep conversations, though – that’s better handled when you can find some time to be alone. Discussing the issues that caused the breakup to happen is vital to establishing a successful relationship now. They won’t just disappear once you get back together. Avoid questioning him or teasing in front of his friends – you’ll only put him on edge and make his friends uncomfortable.

He’s Always Asking to See You

If he’s constantly trying to spend time with you, it’s obvious that he’s seriously missing your company. He’s still thinking about you a lot and if he’s willing to spend time with you in public, he’s probably not trying to hide you from the watchful eyes of a new fling.

If he wants to see you face to face, it can mean one of two possibilities. It could mean that he’s interested in a one-night-stand, or only looking to rekindle your physical relationship. He wants the sex without the commitment. If you’re looking to get him back in a relationship, this is not the way to accomplish it.

The second reason is that he’s genuinely starting to question the breakup as a whole. He is already in the process of doing what you want to accomplish – re-examining the reasons he broke up with you and possibly changing his mind. This is a positive sign! Simply play things cool and let him figure things out at his own pace.

This step can be confusing to a lot of women. Seeing their ex-boyfriend in a new, friend-type role is not the way they’re accustomed to spending time with him and breaking all those old patterns can be hard. You don’t want to be stuffed into the “friend zone” unwillingly, but guys don’t usually pull out the “friend zone” card. They either want to know they have the option of getting back together eventually, or they’re interested in you romantically now. He probably has enough friends to hang out with that he doesn’t see in a romantic light.

There Are Sudden Compliments From Him

While you may have started on this journey alone, getting back together requires a real decision on both sides. You can probably tell if he’s starting to come around if his behavior towards you has done a quick 180. If he’s suddenly opening doors for you again or paying you compliments every time you turn around, it’s a sure sign that he wants you back. He’s beginning the courting process all over again – just like he did when you first started dating.

Simply take this with gratitude and calm acceptance. He’s probably feeling awkward and looking for a way to reconcile that awkwardness with his growing feelings of affection. Pay him a compliment in return and try to ease his discomfort by allowing him to pamper you. Some of this extra attention may feel nice.

Questioning You about Your Dating Status

If your ex is starting to ask you questions about your love life, you are almost at the finish line to get him back. Guys will only ask this question if they’re trying to accurately assess their chances of dating you. While it may not happen overnight, he’s curious about the potential for a reason. He absolutely does not want to have to watch you date someone else.

If your ex has any feelings of jealousy at all, they’ll be pretty obvious. He may try to hide them from you, but it won’t work. Don’t make up stories about any potential dates or try to turn a situation into something it’s not. Just be honest. Lying to him to spare his feelings will do nothing but break any trust that you still have. Trust is the foundation that successful relationships are built on, and they cannot be based on a lie.

What If He Isn’t Displaying Any Of These Signs?

If the above signs are not glaringly obvious around your ex like a neon movie sign, not all hope is lost. It is time for you to take action to change the way he sees you and to make him interested in a relationship. Waiting may seem like a good idea, but it can often hinder your chances.

You need to repair your broken relationship now, while there are still steps you can take to making that a reality. A step-by-step guide is great, but it can be used in combination with other tricks that aren’t as widely known. All of these tools can be at your disposal to ensure you the best chances for success.

Get Him Back Forever System

You need to find a way to bring your ex’s emotions back to the surface. This isn’t as hard as you may think. The internet’s popular relationship repair guide can easily lead you through these tips to make your ex unbury all these hidden feelings and want you back again. It’s instantly downloadable, the Ex Factor Guide can have you on the road to reconciliation in no time at all.

Creator, Matt Huston will take you through every aspect of break ups, from cheating to forgiveness, explain the male psyche from a guy’s perspective, and give you the tools necessary to make your reconciliation an inevitability rather than a faint possibility.

Go through the modules in depth and start using the strategies today in order to get your ex boyfriend’s attitude to change towards you, make him want you and see you as a potential girlfriend again. 

 

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Sarah’s Story

My boyfriend broke up with me back in February 2010 and I was devastated. I thought that he was actually going to propose when he told me that we had to talk, so you can imagine the shock I had when he said that he didn’t see us going anywhere. As we had been talking about marriage and settling down for months, it didn’t make any sense.

Like a lot of other girls I was angry at him and demanded answers, but he couldn’t give me any and this hurt even more because I felt that he was making lame excuses to get rid of me. Three years together and he was treating me like this. I didn’t recognise him as the person I loved, it was like he had changed overnight.

I went into denial at the start and started calling him and chasing after him as if nothing had happened. I thought that I could make him see that he had made a huge mistake and he would take me back. This didn’t happen, he only became more and more distant and started ignoring me altogether. I was in such a mess and didn’t know where to turn.

My friends and family said that he would see sense eventually and that I should just try and get on with things in the meantime. Others told me to move on and find someone else. As if it was that easy, I had invested so much in him and we had planned a future together, I couldn’t just turn my feelings off like that.

This is when I started to look for advice online. I thought that there must be someone that had gone through the same kind of thing as me and could maybe give me some pointers. There were so many women in my position that I kind of felt a bit better about what had happened to me. Knowing that I was not on my own made me think that there was hope.

After a few days digging around and reading everything that I could get my hands on, I noticed that a lot of girls were mentioning the same guide: Ex Factor System. They were all talking about what this guide helped them do and how it actually got them results with their ex boyfriends. I was skeptical that some guide could get it right when I obviously couldn’t. I thought that there was nothing to lose at this stage though as everything I had done up until that point had gotten me nowhere, so I downloaded the entire system and started reading through it.

I soon realised that I was doing everything wrong and suddenly understood why Steven was not interested. It taught me a lot about the male psyche and why you have to act in a certain way if you want to get your ex boyfriend back. I still thought that it was too late for me though as I had made all of the mistakes that the system warned me against, and it was now 5 months after the break up.

I decided to put into practice just a couple of the techniques that Matt Huston recommended to see if they had any impact on Steven. Nothing much happened at first and I started getting down-hearted again, feeling like I had wasted even more time. After a few days though he started to take much more of an interest in me. Instead of me always texting him, he started to ask me how I was and began taking an interest in my life again. It was beginning to feel like it had been when we first started going out, him chasing me and wanting to know more.

The techniques that I learned do require a lot of willpower and you have to stick to them to see results, but it was incredible to see how fast and how well he responded to them. After a while he wanted to meet up with me again, just a casual coffee. But he was more like the Steven I knew before and there was no coldness there anymore. I was patient and let him do the chasing as I wanted him to be sure that he wanted this as much as me. There was no way I wanted to force him into anything as I learned that it would backfire later on down the road.

Needless to say, after a couple of meetings, Steven eventually admitted that he missed me and that he had made a mistake. We promised to take it slow and not rush back into things, but 3 months later we are now back together and planning our future again! I now understand him so much better and know when to give him his space. It is a weird thing to say, but I think that our relationship is much better than it was before.

I just wanted to let other girls out there know that there is still hope for you even if you have made so many mistakes with your ex boyfriend. I did and with the help of the Ex Factor System, I managed to reverse this completely. 

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How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back

How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back

Make Him Desire You Again With Proven Techniques

The problem is that most women focus on the wrong things when they are trying to get their ex boyfriends back – what they want. This is probably the worst thing that you can do because it fails to take into account what he wants or male psychology.  This is why a lot of women find themselves banging their heads up against a brick wall after they have been dumped. When you concentrate on what you think will make him want you again, you will be going in the wrong direction. This is because men and women think very differently in terms of relationships and attraction. 

Instead, you will start seeing much more positive results when you begin to look at things from his perspective. Once you tap into male psychology you will immediately see what you have been doing wrong up until now and subsequently plan your actions to be more effective in the future.

We are going to discuss what kind of things that you should definitely not be doing if you want him to desire you again and then we will take a look at some proven techniques that will make him start to see you in a positive light again and ignite his passion for you. So let’s get started. 

How Your Boyfriend Sees You After The Break Up

It is not easy to hear that your ex boyfriend probably does not want to see or talk to you after the break up. You must accept this though, especially if he is the one that broke up with you. The last thing that he will want is to have you contacting him and asking what went wrong or trying to get him to change his mind. I’m afraid that it just doesn’t work like this.  When you are constantly trying to bump into him, making excuses to contact him or deliberately stalking him, you are doing yourself no favours at all and it is only pushing him further and further away from you. Think about it for a minute. Just try to look at things through his eyes. This is what most women fail to do as all of their energy is focused on getting back together. They fail to see the bigger picture and the impact that their actions could have on their chances of making him want you back.

Acting Emotional Is A Big No No 

You have every right to be miserable and an emotional wreck after you have been dumped, it wouldn’t be natural if you weren’t. That is why you have to take some personal time to grieve for the end of your relationship before you act rashly or do things that you will later regret.

The last thing that you want to do is allow him to see you cry or look depressed in front of him. The truth is that he will only see you as pathetic and unattractive. This is the opposite of what you are trying to achieve. Of course it will mean that you have to do some oscar-winning acting performances, but it is for your own good. Don’t lay it on too thickly though as it will become obvious to him that you are trying to prove a point to him.

Take A Step Back 

Always try to take a step back and ask yourself if what you are doing is coming across as desperate or needy. This is a good model to go by but it does require some restraint on your part. You will have to fight back your urges to contact him or bring up the break up. Try to get your emotions under control when you are around him and have some self respect, when he sees that you are taking the break up well he will have much more admiration for you. You must avoid behaviour that makes you look unstable, bitter or spiteful. This means that you should not interrogate him about the break up, just accept it and walk away calmly. The same goes for what you say to your ex boyfriend post break up. If you start to act angrily towards him and lash out this will make him see you in a very negative light. Remember that he will be sensitive too after your break up and everything that you say could be used against you at a later date.

Realise Your Own Self Worth First

When you try to sell yourself back to your ex boyfriend it will not only ruin your own self esteem, but it will make him devalue you as a person. Men work very differently to women as they like to be the ones that chase and not the other way round. When you are chasing after him and begging him for another chance, you are emasculating him and making yourself look cheap in his eyes. If you are forcing something on him that he doesn’t want it will only backfire on you in the future. Until he desires you again there is nothing that you can do or say that will have any impact on him right now. So concentrate your efforts in making him attracted to you again instead. This will be much more effective.

This may sound overly harsh, but it is the way he will see you if you don’t learn to value yourself. You know that you are worth more than this. It can’t be healthy trying to convince someone that they should be with you, the other person has to want it too. This is what you want to accomplish – making him want you all by himself and with no obvious intervention on your part.

Men Do Not Want To Be Forced Or Guilt-Tripped Into Getting Back Together

Men like to make their own decisions. Remember that. When you force him into something he will only clam up and become distant. The last thing that you want to do is force him into getting back together with you out of guilt. This will spell disaster for your future together, make him feel suffocated and resent you. Ultimately he will leave you again because he is not happy. 

You have to have a different approach that actually works and makes him feel that he was not forced or cajoled into it. This is crucial if you want him to want you again because it all has to come from him. You can help him along this path in a subtle way though, and this is what we are going to discuss next – how to make him want you back

How To Make Him Want You Again

To make your ex boyfriend want you again, you have to be the girl that he first fell in love with. Think about that for a moment. Technically you still are the same girl, but something changed along the way to make him forget this or start to see you differently. Try to pinpoint what that is and set it right. It may seem like a simple solution to getting him back again – be like the girl he fell in love with. You have to understand though that this is going to be difficult to do because of your current emotional state.

When you get dumped it is completely normal for your mind to go into overdrive with paranoia about the real reasons he broke up with you. Your head might be spinning with all of the things that he said in the last days and weeks, trying to decipher his actions for clues. You will not be thinking straight at this time and as a consequence, everything that you say or do will be marked by emotion that you will later regret. When you are focused on your past relationship and wasting all of your energy on trying to get him back, you are forgetting one crucial thing – he doesn’t want you. Not at this specific time anyway, and you have to accept that no matter how cruel it seems.

Instead you should be spending your time constructively. This will involve trying to clear your mind of negative thoughts and beginning to see things rationally again. When you are able to control your emotions you will be able to see things differently and start to formulate a plan to win back his affections and make him regret breaking up with you. Getting the timing right with this is crucial. You have to give yourself time to heal and accept your current situation. When you act rashly and preemptively, you will go back to square one. So how do you know that you are ready to get him back? Well, your head should be a lot clearer, you should look at things more positively and not be in floods of tears. Of course you will still be feeling vulnerable, but you will notice a renewed sense of purpose and a determination to make him see you as attractive again. That is when you know the time is right.

Recreating The Magic – Make Him Fall For You Again

When you first started dating there was likely a lot of magic and passion between you. This is a fantastic time and something that is fondly remembered by all couples.  Sometimes this magic fades away in a relationship, especially if you have both been together for a long time. This is the reason for a lot of break ups, one or other partner miss the initial spark that you had in the beginning and think that there is something missing when it is not there anymore. 

There is some good news in this though. Once you understand how to get this spark back you can make him fall in love with you all over again. If you can recreate the scenario of when you first met, you will be able to bring back everything that he felt was missing when he broke up with you. Get his attention back and he will be more willing to give it another try.

So How Do You Do This?

The best strategy that women use to get the passion and attraction back is distance. That may sound extremely counter-intuitive to you right now, after all, having nothing to do with him might make him forget you even exist right? Nothing could be further from the truth actually. If you have ever heard of the saying ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’, you will realise the effectiveness of distancing yourself from your ex boyfriend. This is what you have to do initially if you want to stand any chance of him wanting you again. You can then use this no contact phase to plan how to make him fall in love with you again. It is the optimum time to focus on improving your situation and concentrate upon yourself. Follow these simple steps below to make your ex boyfriend start seeing you in a different way. When you regain his respect and admiration this will in turn reignite his attraction for you.  These four things will make him reconsider his decision to break up with you if you master them correctly. The more effort you put into these areas, the better your chances are, so let’s get going.

Step 1 – Confidence Is Key

If you asked most guys what they find most attractive about a woman, 9 times out of 10, confidence will always come up. Men like women who have a strong sense of their own self worth and know their own minds. This is a highly attractive quality to have and one that naturally draws men in because it intrigues them.  Compare this to nervous women who are constantly asking for reassurance and are easily manipulated. Men do not respect these kinds of women and oftentimes they end up attracting men that are poisonous for them as they can see this weakness and want to exploit it.

If you are unsure of yourself it will also make him unsure of you and turn him off. Of course there is a fine line between being confident and arrogant. Remember that arrogance is hugely unattractive and can make a guy unwilling to approach you. So do not look down your nose at him and put on airs and graces, he will run a mile in the opposite direction. If you manage to pull off these air of confidence he will immediately think that you are not needy and that he has lost something valuable.

Confident is probably the last thing that you feel right now, especially if he broke up with you. In fact it may be at rock bottom. You must dust yourself down though and not be inhibited by the nagging feeling in the back of your head that you are not good enough. Never allow yourself to lose your self belief a this will have knock on affects in other areas. Getting dumped is a big part of life and it can actually make you come to realise what you have been doing wrong, correct it, and subsequently make your new relationship so much better than the last.

Step 2 – Be Independent

This is another key attribute that men find highly attractive in a woman. You may think that you are quite an independent person, but look a little deeper. How does your behaviour look to your ex boyfriend? When it comes to relationships women can automatically take a very subservient role and vy for attention.  Whilst this may be deemed ‘cute’ by some men, how does it make them view you long term? No man will see a future with a woman who is needy and high maintenance, they just won’t put up with it for a prolonged period of time. You will also lose your own self respect if you behave like this. Unfortunately most women do not even realise that they are doing anything wrong here and this is when break ups begin.

Reassess whether you were giving him his own space and whether you could function normally without him. If you were constantly asking him to do things with you or give up his personal time to please you, truth is you are not that independent after all. When you are independent you are the opposite of needy. You will be able to function by yourself and still have a good time. Such women do not rely on men to make them feel happy or fulfill their every need. This is what men look for in a girl.

After the break up you must be independent, or at least appear that you are. Your ex boyfriend will be monitoring how you are handling the break up and if he sees that you are out there getting on with your life he will be much more attracted to you. If, on the other hand, you are obviously lost without him, pining in a depressive state, he will feel sorry for you and try to avoid you as it would be awkward. This is not the position that you want to be in. When you become your own person and show him that you are just fine without him, he will immediately think twice about the break up. He will be much more likely to contact you and start chasing you from this point on.

Step 3 – Let Him See You Having Fun

Your ex boyfriend will be expecting you to stay in and bemoan the loss of him. The last thing that he will be expecting you to do is to go out and have fun with your friends and get on with your life. So this is what you should do!

Do not give him the satisfaction of knowing that you are still pining for him. This only gives him the upper hand and boots his ego. When he thinks that he can get you back any time he wants he will not be forced into any action. 

Instead, when he sees that there may be a possibility that you are moving on without him, it will kick him into chasing after you to get you back. This is his greatest fear – you moving on before him. This also puts you in a great position because it encourages him to make an effort by himself without you cajoling him into it. Your ex boyfriend doesn’t want to entertain the thought of you starting to date again, at least not for a long time after the break up. What he would prefer is that he can get you back if he decides to change his mind. He wants you to be waiting for him in the sidelines. This is selfish, undoubtedly, but he is only thinking of himself right now. 

By doing the exact opposite of what he expects you to do you will be stoking his desire for you as you will appear mysterious and attractive. Therefore you should fill your post break up days with fun things.

Surround yourself with friends and family and get out there and do the things that you are passionate about. When your ex  boyfriend sees this change in you he will remember the old you, the girl he fell in love with. When he sees that you can be happy without him it will stir feelings of jealousy in him. This is because he liked to imagine that he was the main reason for your happiness during your relationship. It hurts him to realise that this isn’t actually the case and that you are responsible for your own happiness. This might sound strange to you, but this is how he will be feeling, even when he was the one who broke up with you.

Step 4 – Be Happy (It Unnerves Him)

Probably the best way to make your ex boyfriend want you back is to exude happiness. The happier that you appear to be, the more interested your ex boyfriend will be to know what is causing it. As you may already know, happiness is an incredibly attractive trait and people are drawn to those who make them feel good about themselves. The same goes for your ex boyfriend. He will want to be surrounded by a girl who makes him happy and creates a fun environment. When you are miserable it will have the opposite affect, he will run in the other direction.  Think about this for a second. It is all down to human behaviour and what men think that they want in a potential mate.

You may have heard of the old saying, ‘the grass is always greener on the other side.’ This is what your ex boyfriend will be thinking when he sees that you are happy. He will want some of what you have and wonder exactly what it is that has brought about this change in you. As humans, we all want what we cannot have, it is a psychological trait. When he suddenly realises that he cannot have you like he thought, his desire for you will increase and he will be compelled to win back your attention. We all value that which is rare, so when you make yourself unavailable and act as if you are happy without him, in turn he will value you more. We are strange creatures.  It is important to realise that your ex boyfriend is probably lonely like you after the break up. There is a huge void in his life that he may not have expected and things may not be as rosy as he anticipated. This is your perfect opportunity to make yourself and your life attractive to him. Make him see what he is missing by reminding him of how special you are. He will then follow suit.

Next Step – Make Him Regret the Breakup and Want You Again

The only way that you are going to get your ex boyfriend to regret the breakup and want you again, is to start getting inside his head and seeing things from his perspective. Self awareness is a huge tool that you have in your arsenal, you just have to know how to use it to your advantage. The things you say and do after a breakup are crucial to how your ex boyfriend sees you. Learn how to turn the tables around and make your ex see you in an attractive, desirable way again with the Ex Factor System. 

This system is specifically designed for women who are trying to get back their ex boyfriends. Brad Browning is a well respected and popular relationship expert and psychologist. He is well versed in relationship problems and why people act the way that they do after a break up. He will talk you through everything from a male perspective, giving you insights into why men break up with women, why they say certain things and what they actually mean by this, what they feel about you after the break up and what will make them crazy about you again.

Browning delivers powerful techniques that you can start implementing on your ex boyfriend today to get a positive reaction from him. You can also start to see a change in the way he views you and his contact will increase once you begin putting these strategies into practice. 

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Use The No Contact Rule To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

No Contact Rule

Contact With Your Ex Boyfriend After Break Up

When we first break up this is a very common question that most girls ask: “When should I contact my ex boyfriend?” There is so much advice out there on when to do it and a lot of them get it wrong because they either tell you to leave it too late or do it too soon. Either of these scenarios will do you no favours if you want to get your ex boyfriend back again. There is a fine line that you have to walk if you want to do things properly and doing things on a whim is not a good idea. The contact that you have with your ex boyfriend, what you say to him and how you say it, are hugely important in getting him back. 

Being Emotional In Your Contact With Him Is A Bad Idea

Think about it. The hours, days and weeks following your break up will be highly emotional and you will both be very sensitive to what the other person says and does. That is why you have to think about things very carefully in the initial stages as rushing in on a gut feeling could wreck your chances. 

If you act in a way that is overly emotional or hysterical it will make your ex boyfriend have a negative view of you. This will stay in his mind long after the break up and he will want to avoid you at all costs. If he thinks that you are emotionally unstable he will be much less likely to want to contact you himself and all communication that you have with him will be fraught with tension and awkwardness.

You have to be careful here because you want to encourage him to contact you and not the other way round. This is the most positive scenario. So if you want him to contact you there are things that you have to make sure you do not do. One of those things is to be angry or emotional with him. Bringing up the break up after it has happened is a no no. He will not want to hear about it over and over again and he will think that you do not accept it. Little things like this will make him unwilling to talk to you and drive you further apart.

The Best Contact Is No Contact – Detach Yourself From Him

The truth is that the longer you try to hang onto the relationship, the worse it is for you. When you try to bump into him, text or call him after the break up, you are only shooting yourself in the foot and making him think that you are desperate and cannot let go. This is a highly unattractive trait to him and will not make him want you back but instead be glad that he broke up with you in the first place.

No contact may seem counter-intuitive to you right now when you are desperate to talk to him. After all, you might be thinking how on earth can you encourage him to come back to you if you don’t even talk to him? The fact is that what you say to him is not nearly as important as how much contact you have with him. In the initial stages of your break up anyway.

Communication between you and your ex boyfriend should deteriorate very fast after the break up. Although this might be hard for you to cope with, it is what you ultimately want as it will put you in the best position for winning back his desire and love for you.

When you try to hang on by your fingernails to your relationship you are only setting yourself up for a fall. It is natural for contact to stop when you split up with someone, you cannot expect to carry on as normal straight after, it just wouldn’t make sense. You both need time to readjust to this new dynamic between you. Keeping in close contact would not only be extremely awkward, but confusing and hurtful. 

Let Go Of Your Relationship In Order To Pull Him Back

The first step to getting him back is letting him go for a short time. Once you have accepted your break up and allowed him to be free you will also be setting yourself free and opening up the path to reconciliation. If you do not do this then it will be glaringly obvious to your ex boyfriend that you want to get back together with him. It may only be innocent texts, but the intent is always evident and this will always be met by strong resistance from him.

Any attempt that you make to communicate with him will only end in failure and your disappointment. You have to accept that it is over for now and leave him to it. This is your strongest position for now, so try to be strict with yourself when you want to reach out to him.

You must recognise that your previous relationship is now over and that any attempts to maintain contact looks as though you are fighting for something that is already broken. This will not look good to your ex boyfriend and he will only see you in negative terms or someone who is obsessed with him. This means that he will not want to contact you himself or have anything to do with you as this kind of behaviour makes him feel uncomfortable.

If you do not want him to avoid you it is therefore essential that you seem well-adjusted and accept the break up, at least on the surface anyway. You have to make it seem like you have moved on and are mature about the whole thing. This becomes very difficult to do when your ex boyfriend has lost interest in you and isn’t paying any attention to what you are doing. There are ways to let him subconsciously know that you have moved on without explicitly saying so and this guide is excellent for showing you how that is done.

You want your ex boyfriend to notice that you are no longer interested in him even when this is not the case. You have to do what he least expects to gain any kind of reaction from him. He will be expecting you to pine after him, especially if he is the one who dumped you. When you do the opposite of this it will put him on shaky ground and make him reassess his current position.

When you refuse to put up any kind of resistance he will be confused and he will start to wonder about you. This is a key psychological technique that girls have used in the past to get their ex boyfriends back because it works. Not only is withdrawal a highly effective trick to use against him, it will make him become more attracted to you and take a sudden interest in what you are up to.

The Fisherman Analogy

Think of the analogy of a fisherman. He casts his line out into the water and away from him for a time. He waits patiently, he can’t see the hook or bait underneath the water from where he is standing, but he knows that it is there. The hook is knowledge of specific get your ex back techniques, you are the bait and your ex boyfriend is the fish.

You can’t see what the fish (your boyfriend) is up to right now, he might be off further up the river having fun. There comes a time however, when you have been patiently waiting, when the fish gets hungry. The fish will instinctively know where to go to find food (you). It will then latch onto the bait and the fisherman will reel it back in – it has been hooked.

Similarly, you will be able to pull your ex boyfriend closer to you when he begins to miss you and he is hungry with desire for you again. He will start to be hooked by you once more. Nature works in very strange ways. Try to remember the analogy of the fisherman when you are beginning to get impatient and are depressed about the whole situation. Good things come to those who wait.

The No Contact Rule – Why It Works In Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back

When you break all forms of contact with your ex boyfriend it is the fasted and most powerful way of making him take an instant interest in you again. The sad thing is that most women find this almost impossible to do because every urge inside them is wanting to contact him. 

When attempts to get back your ex boyfriend fail it is primarily because you did not completely adhere to the no contact phase. When you break this rule it will only make your ex boyfriend think things like this:

“It is so awkward when she keeps calling and texting me. It is obvious that she wants to get back together but it just puts me off. It’s kind of desperate.”

You have to understand something about male psychology here. When you are evidently needy and desperate your boyfriend will quickly lose whatever respect for you he had left. Think about this for a minute. Why was he attracted to you in the first place? You were probably a different person back then in terms of self confidence and keeping a mysterious air about you. This is what draws guys in. They like independent women who are not emotional wrecks and have a strong sense of who they are. 

When you are constantly pestering him it will only serve to make him see you as pathetic. If you do not respect yourself enough to stay away from him he will not respect you either. When he recognises that you will do anything to get him back it pushes him further away and he will begin to devalue you as a person. You have to show him your value and that you are not easy to win – that is the key. This is why the no contact rule is a powerful technique because it helps you to achieve this.

No Contact Will Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You

No one expects this to be an easy thing for you to do. Going from seeing your boyfriend every day and him being a huge part of your life, to not communicating with him at all, it will take a lot of effort on your part. You will notice a huge void in your life and you will begin to miss him incredibly. If you are feeling this way remember that he probably feels it too to some extent. 

It is only natural for him to still have feelings for you as there are strong emotional bonds there that are hard to break and deny completely.  Even if it seemed that he broke up with you suddenly, he expected you to still be around in some sort of way, perhaps as a friend. He will probably also have expected to gradually withdraw from you himself so that he would get more and more used to the idea of not having you around.

In all probability your ex boyfriend will have expected you to keep chasing after him or at the very least take an interest in his life. This only allows him power over you. He is the one with the advantage because he doesn’t have to let you go until he is completely ready to do so. It is a gradual process in his eyes because he knows that there is a big part of you that is still in love with him.

When he knows exactly where you are (in the wings waiting for him) he can take all the time in the world to decide what girl he wants to move on with next. If you stay in his life he will only be aware of exactly what you are doing and how you feel about him. When he knows that he can get you back anytime he wants to he will be in no rush to reconcile.

Remember though that this is only possible if you give him what he wants. You can completely reverse the whole power struggle between you by being proactive and withdrawing from him when he least expects. When you do this properly you will start to notice a huge change in the way he interacts with you and treats you. This is because your withdrawal has caused him to start missing you more than he anticipated. This is what you need initially to get him back again, because if he doesn’t miss you he will not be interested in a relationship.

When you create a huge void in his life he will crave you again and want to chase after you. By dropping off his radar you will be able to achieve this and make him miss you. Ultimately this will speed up the whole process of getting back together, and best of all it is him that is doing the chasing and not you!

What The No Contact Rule Involves

You have to be so strict with yourself here because the no contact rule means no contact of any form. You will only be successful if you stick to it religiously.

Okay, so this includes no texting, calling, talking or emailing him. Do not drive by his house or try to bump into him as you will only be forced to talk to him and this is something that you don’t want to happen. There can be no exceptions to this remember. The better you stick to this plan the more likely it is that your ex boyfriend will be the one that contacts you out of the blue.

If this does happen it is important that you try to resist his attempts at interaction. Don’t do it in a nasty way or say that you don’t want to talk to him of course, this will only make you look bitter and immature. It will also put him off contacting you again as he will think that you are not receptive to his efforts.

What you should do instead is to unplug your phone, turn off your mobile or do not answer his calls. It is far better to let his calls and texts go unanswered than replying to him because it piques his interest.

You see, when you are not where he expects you to be, on the other end of the phone waiting for him, it will cause his imagination to go into overdrive. He will start to think about where you could be and who you could be with. He will then fill in the blanks himself when he realises that you are too busy to answer his calls. This is extremely effective and best of all you haven’t done anything at all! 

The same applies to your social networking accounts. Please do not go onto Facebook like you previously did or drop hints about how you are feeling in the hope that he will see it. You should deactivate your account for a while or try to stay off it completely as he will only be using it to check up on how you are. Don’t give him the satisfaction. When you disappear from your online presence it will mean that he will have to put in the effort himself to find out how you are by contacting you personally. 

Another benefit of avoiding Facebook is that it will stop you from becoming paranoid. Instead of healing and working out an effective plan to get him back, you will only end up checking his statuses a few times a day and ultimately read into everything in too much depth. It is not healthy and will not allow you to focus on what you have to do to win him back.

He will be relying on you to still have an online presence after the break up so that he can keep an eye on you. When you disappear it will be extremely disconcerting for him. His mind will go into overdrive and he will start to see you as mysterious again. This is the secret of making him attracted to you so be mysterious!

When your ex boyfriend knows that you are still pursuing him and are interested in him one way or the other, he will be in a safe position. Once you do the opposite of this and stop giving him the attention that he craves, he will suddenly have to acknowledge the possibility that you are no longer interested in him. This will be a huge blow to his ego and he will want to do something about it before it is too late.

How Long Will The No Contact Period Last?

That is the burning question and something that we are going to discuss now. Although each break up scenario is different, there are some general recommendations when it comes to contact with your ex boyfriend.  You will find lots of different advice on the internet about the best time to initiate contact, but in my experience the best period of time is around six weeks. 

Six weeks of silence from you may seem like a huge amount of time from your perspective. It will go very slowly at the beginning, but you have to keep in mind what your end goal is – to win him back. You will only be able to achieve this if you resist contact with him.

It usually takes this amount of time to allow you to heal from being dumped. All that bitterness and anger that you feel for him now will soon dissipate and you will feel much more positive about the whole scenario. If you have said things to him that you are embarrassed about, it will be largely forgotten after the six week period too.

The best thing of all is that your ex boyfriend will begin to miss you a lot during this time. When he is pining for you he will be much more likely to get in contact with you too. The chances are that he will be in touch with you long before the six weeks is up if you do it properly. Even if he hasn’t called you can rest assured that he will be much more open to hearing from you because he hasn’t had any kind of communication with you for so long.

Another advantage for you is that he will not be as suspicious of your motives when you do get back in contact with him. Your conversations will be much less awkward when he knows that you haven’t been trying to convince him to get back together with you.

There are a few very powerful techniques that you can use to make your ex boyfriend contact you of his own accord. You need to learn what these are because it will enable you to react in a way that entices him when you do speak to him again. This guide explains what you should do.

Your Next Step – Text Your Ex Back

text ex backWhen your ex boyfriend does get back in touch with you, you will need to know how to respond in a way that retains his interest and stoke his desire for you again. If you don’t pull this off properly, he will start to pull away from you again and move on. 

Luckily Michael Fiore has come up with a proven plan that will ignite his passion for you and tell you exactly what you need to say to make him want you back again.

The Text Your Ex Back System has featured on numerous high profile shows in the USA and he has helped thousands of couples to get back together by tapping into human psychology. You can instantly download the audio, video and manual system to put these techniques into practice when he contacts you. You can also use these text examples to initiate contact with him again after a certain period of time, which Fiore explains himself. Click Here to get access to your free video which will show you what texts to not send your ex and free advice on how to get him back!

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Mistakes Girls Make After The Break Up

Avoid These Mistakes If You Want To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

When you first get dumped there are a whole myriad of emotions and thoughts running through your head. It is natural to feel depressed and desperate but you do not want to let these feelings take over as it could spell disaster for your future chances of getting back your ex boyfriend.

It is common for your ex boyfriend to act cold or indifferently towards you in the aftermath of your separation, unfortunately this only makes you feel worse and confused because he is acting like a completely different person to who you know him as. 

So what do you do if he is ignoring you, isn’t returning your phone calls and seems as though he has moved on already without you? That is a good question and something that we are going to tackle here. So keep on reading to find out what you should not be doing that will push him away from you. You will also learn some proven strategies that will regain his interest and spark off attraction for you again, so let’s get going!

If you feel like this girl right now you are not alone. Of course it is healthy to take some personal time to wallow in your sadness. You are not a robot and you have to deal with what has just happened. Do not allow this to go on too long though as it will have a negative impact on your chances of getting him back again.

Statistics Prove That 95% Of Relationships Can Be Saved

You have to take some hope in the fact that thousands of couples break up every day all over the world and a lot of these couples do end up getting back together. There is some luck involved in this naturally, but other women instinctively know what to do and say to make their ex boyfriends regret their decision. They are aware of human psychology and what will make him yearn for them again and start chasing after them. These are the girls that get their ex boyfriends back and you can do exactly as they have done when you follow the right advice.

The Good News

There is some good news in all of this. There are a few ways that you can get your ex boyfriend back, no matter what happened in your relationship. You just have to want it enough and have the motivation to put in a little bit of effort. I’m not going to lie to you and tell you that you will win him back tomorrow, the likelihood is that this will not happen, it may take a few weeks. It all depends upon your own situation.

However, you can speed up the process by putting certain techniques to work. When you see these techniques starting to work on him it will be fun to watch. There will be a big shift in how he interacts with you and how he views you, so take heart, all hope is not lost yet.

You have an amazing advantage right now and that is knowledge. The more you know about the male mind and how men commonly react after a break up, the more you will be able to judge your own personal situation correctly and do and say all the right things to make him desire you again.

Think about it like this. You are good at certain things because you practice them a lot or you know a lot about the subject. Just like you could be an excellent flirt, you can also become effective in reversing a break up. Most people don’t have a clue where to start though as this was never taught to them in school or anywhere else. In fact, friends and family can end up giving you incredibly damaging advice. It’s not their fault though, they were never taught these things either. 

The Importance Of Timing

Even if you find yourself on the right path and making progress with your ex boyfriend, the sad fact is that if you stay on this same path for too long it can end up pushing him away. You see, you have to understand the importance of timing here. Guys can be impatient and will soon move on if they have to jump through too many hoops to get you back. In the same way they can quickly lose interest if you are not quick enough.

Be aware though that there is a natural progression to getting him back, if you rush full steam ahead in desperation it will put him off you for good and make him want to stay as far away from you as possible. There is obviously a fine line that you need to walk to make your efforts successful. Don’t worry though, you are going to learn all about what to do and the mistakes that you should be avoiding.

You have to know where to start first, so let’s take a look at some of the mistakes women usually make when trying to get him back. These should be avoided at all costs. If you have already made some or all of these mistakes never fear. There are specific things that you can do to make him forget all about them and make him view you in a positive light again. Please read through and learn these tips before you do anything else. This is your first step in making him want you back again. 

Avoid These Common Mistakes After Your Break Up

This is probably the most crucial time after your break up. What you do and say here will determine where you are heading in terms of getting back together. You can end up saying and doing things that will drive him away from you and make him see you as unstable. I’m afraid that this is what most girls end up doing in the initial stages of their break up because their emotions are running at an all time high. 

The problem here is that most girls do not realize how important this stage is. They end up hitting out at their ex boyfriends because they are angry and hurt. They often feel that they should be doing something to win back his love and start making serious errors in judgement because of this. It is a desperate time and the more they try to win him back, the worse their situations seem to become. 

There is a reason for this and it is all based on timing. You can’t just expect for your ex boyfriend to take you back immediately after he broke up with you. This wouldn’t make sense as he obviously has good reasons for doing so. You have to give him some space to work out what he wants and if you are behaving in a desperate and highly volatile manner, it will just reinforce that he made the right decision to break up with you in the first place.  

Watch Out For What You Say To Him After Your Break Up

You have to keep in mind that everything that you do or say after your break up is magnified in his eyes. This is because it is an emotionally charged time. He will remember everything you say to him because he is sensitive to you thoughts about him. So be careful about uttering things that you might later regret.

Do not act before you think. That is a sound piece of advice and it can save a lot of heartache. You may have already made this mistake with your ex boyfriend but it doesn’t mean it is the end for you.

This is a time when you are at your weakest emotionally and so many things will be going on in your mind that it is easy to lose sense of reality sometimes. Accept that this is a stage that you must go through after your break up, but deal with it in a mature way and do not allow him to see that you are taking it badly.

Stalking Is A Bad Idea

Now, if saying horrible and spiteful things to your ex boyfriend wasn’t bad enough, stalking him will really ruin your chances of getting him back. I’m not talking about the kind of stalking where you creep up on him from behind and sit outside of his house with binoculars monitoring everything that he does (avoid this too please). What I’m talking about is cyber stalking or stalking him through his friends.

This is a very common method that girls use after they have been dumped to keep an eye on what he is doing and how he is feeling after the break up. It is natural to want to know what he is up to and who he is doing it with, after all he was a huge part of your life and he suddenly isn’t there anymore.

What you have to bear in mind is that this will be doing you no good whatsoever. It can quickly become an obsession and take over every part of your life. You can also end up reading into things too much and it will end up hurting you even more. I have known grown women who have slowly lost all self respect in doing this. They check his Facebook wall every day for clues for over a year after the break up and they end up becoming mentally unwell and can’t move on. 

You have to remember that what your ex boyfriend posts on Facebook is very different to the reality of how he is feeling. Think about it. We project an image of how we want things to be on Facebook. We seldom pour out our hearts on our walls for everyone to see, this is even more true for guys. They will want to portray an image of happiness to you and the outside world. Male pride will not allow them to look like they miss you. 

Never Plead On Him To Take You Back

This is a very common thing for girls to do because they are grief-stricken and cannot imagine their life without him. You have to start to think about things from his perspective though. How will it look to him if you start asking him constantly to give it another try? If you start crying in front of him and trying to guilt trip him into things it will only make him resent you even more and he will start to see you as pathetic. 

When you are miserable and desperate it is highly unattractive to him. Why would be want to be with a girl who is weak and has no self respect? I know that this sounds harsh, but you have to understand that men view relationships and behaviour completely differently. They have different priorities and will want a girl that is composed and knows her own self worth. If you do not know how special you are and what you deserve in a relationship, how do you expect him to?

If you continue down this self destructive path you will only end up doing yourself more damage and making it almost impossible for your ex boyfriend to ever see you in a positive light again. Let’s take a look at what guys usually think after a break up. This should give you a big insight into what goes on in the male mind and what you should not be doing.

What He Thinks After He Dumps You



“Whenever I break up with someone I want space. I do not want to have to go over and over my reasons again and again about why I wanted to break up with her. It is embarrassing and awkward.”

“After I broke up with my girlfriend I found it much easier to ignore her altogether. I just didn’t know what to say to her as I thought it would hurt her more if I continued to be friendly. Every time we spoke she wanted to meet up and asked if I would take her back. I couldn’t handle that.” 

I hate the drama of break ups. When a girl gets very resentful and bitter towards you there is no way that you want to be around her. Guilt trips are the worst. Girls have a knack of making you feel bad about the break up and turning everyone against you.” 



Do you see now that this kind of behaviour can make him glad that he broke up with you in the first place? The last thing that you want is for him to feel this way about you as it is just soul-destroying.

The best thing that you can do is not to force things. You want to avoid making things awkward between you both because it will discourage him from trying to initiate conversations with you. Give yourself and him some space initially so that you can work out your next moves and get your emotions in check.

Now that you have learned what you should not be doing, the next logical thing to do would be to learn what you should be doing to make him want you again and speed up your reconciliation. Click here for more advice on what you should do. 

What If You Have Already Made These Mistakes?

The good news is that it is not too late. The above advice may seem somewhat inappropriate if your break up happened a long time ago. It still helps to understand where you have gone wrong up to this point so that you can start to fix it, and fix it you can!

If you are still determined to get your ex boyfriend back then you will have to take a step back, understand what you have been doing wrong and then start to immerse yourself in the male psyche. When you discover exactly what goes on in his head it will be a real eye opener for you. From there you can start to put yourself in a position of control again and follow a proven plan to win back his interest in you and begin to miss you. 

It is not too late to take action. There are certain detachment techniques that you can apply to make your ex boyfriend know that you are ok with the break up and you accept it.

Even if you have not talked to your ex boyfriend in a while this is still an extremely effective technique as it shows him that you are moving away from him and getting on with your life. This will throw him off balance and suddenly start to spark his interest in you again. This will ultimately open up the chance of reconciliation between you both when he realises that you could be slipping away from you for good.

Text Your Ex Back System goes into this in a lot more depth and give you the appropriate techniques to follow to get his attention and make him desire you again.

Your Next Steps

When your ex boyfriend gets back in touch with you, you will need to know how to respond in a way that retains his interest and stoke his desire for you again. If you don’t pull this off properly, he will start to pull away from you again and move on.

Luckily Michael Fiore has come up with a proven plan that will ignite his passion for you and tell you exactly what you need to say to make him want you back again. The Text Your Ex Back System has featured on numerous high profile shows in the USA and he has helped thousands of couples to get back together by tapping into human psychology. You can instantly download the audio, video and manual system to put these techniques into practice when he contacts you. You can also use these text examples to initiate contact with him again after a certain period of time, which Fiore explains himself. 

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Why Do Men Leave Women?

Find Out Why Men Leave Women And How To Make Him Crazy About You Again

Exactly why do men leave women? Why do men fall out of love? If you have just been through a relationship split up, I’m sure these are typically a few of the questions on your mind at this moment. I understand just how stressful it is at this moment, you’re sure to be feeling emotional, but don’t allow them to rule your head. It’s vital now that you keep a clear head, if you want to stand the best chance of a reconciliation with your ex.

There is a well used adage which goes; ‘slowly, slowly catchy monkey’ – I’ve no idea whether or not you might have heard it before but it’s a good one to consider at the moment. In essence it implies if you are cautious and patient then you will get what you wish for without making any mistakes, but if you are rash and impatient you’ll make mistakes and you will never catch the monkey! Therefore the first thing you should do now is to get your heated emotions at bay so that you can move on with a clear and logical mind.

What Attracts Men?

Think long and hard about this and start to think from a male perspective. Look back on what made your ex boyfriend like you in the first place. What did he say first attracted him to you? When you realise this you will soon see that you have everything you need to go about making yourself attractive to him again. All you have to do is find these qualities and work on them to win back his affections!

The Differences Between Men And Women

You’ve probably realized that women and men are different! – No I do not mean physically, I mean mentally! There’s a book called ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ which attempts to encapsulate the differences in the way men and women think. Take some time right now to reflect on what ‘s been going on with your relationship recently, are you aware of what you could have been doing wrong?

The majority of females assume that guys think in a similar fashion to them – they couldn’t be more mistaken. I’m sure you are aware that women and men differ mentally, but I do not believe most females appreciate exactly how much. In order to understand the reason behind your ex’ boyfriends behavior , then you’ll definitely need to begin at the beginning simply by understanding the way males think. This is just one example: males place their own career and wealth as the most important priority, and without it they find it hard to think about a future or a relationship.

It makes sense when you think about it, it’s all in our human make-up – the men were supposed to hunt and provide for the family and the women stayed at home caring for their young. Guys have a deep hunter, gatherer, protector behavioral instinct where as a woman’s priority is a family and children. It does not take a great deal to learn about these differences, and they will go a long way towards helping you recognize your own relationship difficulties. We will cover a few points right now pertaining to the actual likes and dislikes of males.

Common Reasons Why Men Leave Women

One typical reason why men leave women is simply because they don’t see them as physically appealing any longer. This one thing is not sufficient to make a man leave his lady, but when other challenges build up, it seems to be the principal culprit. I hope this part doesn’t apply to you, however it’s really worth taking a good look at yourself

– Are you still making the best of your appearance?

-Do you still put on your make-up before he leaves for work?

-Do you wear attractive clothing or just sloppy joes?

-What is happening with your weight?

Well, is their room for improvement? In that case you have taken the first step, which is in recognizing the situation – so let’s get to work!

The following points will give you a good idea of what men want and don’t want in a relationship, it’s by no means exhaustive but it’s a good start.

  • Make a guy Really feel Good about themselves and you’ve identified the key
  • Men have got egos that need to be fed. To be able to do this you’ll want to give him praise and admiration in addition to affection and also let him know that he’s appreciated
  • Men also need a bit of excitement in their lives which I am sure you are aware of
  • Allow your guy some independence – all men want their own space occasionally, no matter whether it’s a potting shed in the backyard or perhaps a saturday golfing – obviously if he wants his freedom every day without considering you, that’s another story
  • Men can’t stand nagging females. Men really feel inadequate if they don’t think they’re living up to a woman’s high expectations
  • Finally – how was your sex life? If you’ve been too tired for the last six months and imagined a hug would suffice, think again 

2 Things Men are Terrified Of (and How to Help Without Letting Them Know You Know)

He will never tell you any of this.

In fact, he’s dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!)

Well, he won’t tell you, but I will.

But first, two warnings:

First, this isn’t a complete list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggest ones. (I’m working on more articles about a few of the others…)

Second, I’m not telling you so you can shame him. I’m doing this so you can help him. But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn’t know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty dark secrets, too.

On to the juice, shall we?

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay

I won’t tell you that old thing about how guys want waaay more sex that women do, because it’s actually not true. Women want it, we just want it under different terms. He just… wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it. With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register. He’s even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.

Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what’s showing on the screen shocks even him.

Deep down, he’s terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people. His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it’s a testament to his power that he doesn’t let it drive his life, only his brain.

What YOU can do to help him

Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less scared about his sexual desire. I’m not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about, but be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies. Invite him to give you steamy details. Even the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.

Help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.

And finally, don’t forget to let him know you’re sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he’s going to become so riveted by you he’ll never want to let you go. EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman.

GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think I’m weak

You’ve got to feel for the men of our world. They’re expected to get a respectable paycheck, make us feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.

It’s a lot to live up to.

It’s impossible to live up to, actually.

And yet that’s the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don’t answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised… Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.

But that doesn’t mean YOU don’t have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.

What YOU can do to help him

I have a question for you: if he’s fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support for him?

I’m not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he’ll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you’re seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.

Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit. Ask for details. Don’t multitask while you’re doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

3 Steps to make a man love you

If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players” and guys
who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this
new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and 
it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actually
make him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

–> Make him powerfully addicted (in a really good way) to you!

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men
really want and need from a woman for them to be able
to give EVERYTHING to her… (In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend Captured
His Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though
he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

Your Next Step – Capture His Heart And Understand What He Wants From You

It’s time right now to figure out things like ‘what will make a guy bored in a relationship’, and ‘what makes his perfect partner’. When you have found out how you can satisfy a man’s needs, you can go about attracting him again and making him commit to you. Truth is that there are some things that make a man question whether or not they should have a future with you. Most women do not know that they are doing anything wrong. You need to understand exactly why men become distant and pull away from you. You will also find out how to create emotional intimacy again and make him interested in you like he was at the start of your relationship.

Take a look at this system by renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore. It takes an in depth look into relationship dynamics, why men want certain things from women and how to meet his needs so that he is fulfilled and doesn’t want to leave again. Figure out why men cheat and why they look at other women. It is a practical how to system that enables you to see your relationship through his eyes and understand what has been going wrong up until now. WATCH THIS VIDEO to find out more about the system.

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Does He Still Like Me? How To Find Out

After a break up it is very common to feel that your ex boyfriend does not like you anymore, especially if he was the one that broke up with you. This is a normal thing to worry about and every situation is different. He may have told you that he had fallen out of love with you, but this does not mean that he still doesn’t like you and respect you as a person.

Common Mistakes That Women Make

Most women take the wrong approach when they are trying to find out if he still likes them. They will usually end up asking their friends or prying for clues. This will ultimately make them look foolish and they can be very easily found out. Just think about how this looks to your ex. Never lose your self respect or he will have a negative view of you.

Another common thing that women do is to check their ex boyfriend’s facebook wall constantly, reading into every comment or post he makes. They are searching for any sort of clue at all and trying to over analyse the situation to give themselves hope. This will end up driving you crazy and confusing you even more.

In fact this is the worst thing that you could be doing if you want to find out if your ex boyfriend still likes you. The fact is that he is highly unlikely to post anything honest on there after the break up as the whole world is looking. He will be overcompensating and trying to suppress any residual feelings that he still has for you by being overly confident. He will be trying hard to protect his image and his male pride by pretending that everything is fine to the outside world and to you. He will also be trying to convince himself of this fact.

He Still Has Strong Bonds To You

When you have had a relationship with someone there are connections that are very difficult to break. The attachments that are formed are very strong and this is why you are feeling so low at the moment. Remember that it is not just you who is experiencing these feelings of loss. He will be too. Even if he has dumped you he will miss having you in his life and be wondering what you are doing. There will be a void within him too and this is what makes it possible for couples to get back together when they realise that they cannot live without each other.

With that being said, it would be useful to take a look at some of the signs that would indicate that your ex boyfriend misses you and is pining over you. You will know better where you stand with your future with him if you learn to examine the way that he talks, treats you or behaves after the break up. It is still possible to know how they feel if you have very little contact with them, it is all about learning to decipher the male psyche and read between the lines.

Sign 1 – He Asks To Remain Friends With You After The Break Up

You may think that this is a good compromise after you have broken up because you still get to keep him in your life at some level. You probably think that you can eventually get him back this way by showing him what he is missing. This is definitely not that case though. If you have already agreed to being friends with your ex boyfriend you should seriously reconsider. When you agree to remain friends it will actually drastically reduce your chances of getting him back. In fact he will be much less likely to want a serious relationship with you again because you have both slipped into a new friend zone and he will be comfortable with that.

The good news is that when your ex boyfriend wants to stay friends it shows that he is not over you. He secretly wants to keep a close eye on you and make sure that you don’t move on too quickly and start seeing someone else and forget about him. On the other hand, he still wants to be able to play the field and see if there is anyone else out there that he might prefer. This sounds incredibly callous and it is. It doesn’t mean that he is intentionally trying to hurt you though, it is just human nature to put your own needs first.

If he is the one who dumped you he innately knows that you are still hung up on him and will agree to a friendship out of desperation. He thinks that this is the perfect scenario for him as you are still there as a back up plan should he get lonely. Do not allow this to happen to you because you know that you deserve better than this. You do not want to be anyone’s second choice as this is no basis for a healthy relationship. He has to see that you are the best and only girl for him and he will not be able to do that when you are ‘friends’ with him.

It is not all doom and gloom though. It shows that he still has feelings for you and is trying to figure out if he made the right decision to break up with you. If those feelings weren’t there at all he wouldn’t care less about talking to you or having any kind of contact with you. Look out for him asking to remain friends with you and make the right decision.

Sign 2 – He Is Desperate To Tell You About His Single Life 

Watch out for when he starts talking a lot about his private or single life. He will be trying to test the waters to see if you open up and tell him anything about what you are doing. He wants to know if you have moved on or are interested in another guy. He will not want you to move on too quickly after the break up as it will dent his ego. After all, if he was the one that broke up with you he will feel that he is the one that should have moved on first.

Your ex boyfriend will be trying to drop hints here. When he doesn’t want you to move on and forget about him he will tell you that they haven’t moved on either. He is subtlety trying to tell you that he hasn’t started dating yet, so you shouldn’t be either. It is another way for him to feel secure in the fact that he could get you back whenever he wants because he knows that you are waiting around for him.

Look out for obvious signs that he is going out of his way to convey that he is still single. This could be through direct contact with you, facebook single status or telling your friends and family that he is not dating anyone. This is a strong sign that he is still not over you and is not ready to move on himself. The last thing he wants is for you to be dating again, so he will try to make you wait around for him and this is the best way for him to achieve this.

Sign 3 – He Stays In Contact With You

Ok, so this could be any kind of contact. Texting, facebook messages, emails, instant messages or phone calls are very good indicators that he is not taking the break up as well as you thought. When he has nothing to say, but is just asking how you are, or saying hello, he is trying to make a connection with you and misses you. Look out for this sign as it is the biggest indication that he misses you.

No matter what he says, anyone who has completely moved on from you and the relationship does not still try to get in touch with you. If he is trying to maintain the lines of communication then he still has got unresolved issues about the break up and is probably very confused. He is probably keeping tabs on you to see how you feel first so that he knows how to progress. It has also got a lot to do with security. He feels secure having you around and doesn’t want to let go of that just yet.

Also look out for what he says to you when he does get in touch. Is he flirting with you and trying to see if you will reciprocate? This is a vital clue that you must pay attention to as he will be trying to ascertain how you feel about him too. He will be pushing the boundaries to see if you are open to getting back together without explicitly asking you. He might let slip certain romantic pet names that he had for you too. This shows that his mind in still in the romantic zone and that he still has a great deal of affection for you.

Sign 4 – He Bumps Into You A Lot

If you suddenly notice that your ex boyfriend is bumping into you ‘accidentally’ then you are onto a winner here. He will be trying to see you or make up excuses to talk to you, and this would be a perfect opportunity. Look out for him turning up at your work or places that you used to go a lot. This is no coincidence! Also watch out for the way that he reacts when he sees you. He will be trying to act surprised but it will be obvious that he expected to see you all along. If he knows what time you are going to be somewhere he would avoid being anywhere near there wouldn’t he?

Common sense should tell you that his intentions were to see you and he is desperate to see how you are and have any type of communication with you. He could also be in places that you used to frequent because he is reminiscing about the good times that you shared together. If he cannot have any contact with you, going to these places and thinking about past memories is the only connection he has to your relationship.

Sign 5 – He Asks Friends About You

Sometimes guys are too embarrassed to contact you directly and decide to enquire about your well being through friends. It is easier for them as they do not have to deal with you directly. If your friends say that he has been asking after you then it is a sure sign that he is missing you. Key signs that he is interested in you and what you are doing are also things to watch for. Is he asking your friends what you are up to or if you are spending your new free time with them? If he wasn’t at all interested in you as girlfriend material why would he bother finding out what you are up to?

Look out for him trying to get close to one or any of your friends. He might try to strike up a kind of a friendship with them so he can casually keep an eye on what you are up to in conversation. It is also another way of him trying to maintain some part in your life. If he is friends with your friend then he has some kind of tenuous link to you and will find out what you are up to much more easily.

Sign 6 – He Looks At You

If you cannot avoid your ex boyfriend and you still have to see him a lot, look out for him taking sneaky or lingering looks at you. Trust your own intuition here, if you feel like his eyes are burning into you, they probably are. He misses you.

These are just a few of the signs ex boyfriend misses you after a break up, there are so many more subtle things that you have to look out for. See our website for more advice on how to spot the signs, how to get him to miss you and tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back again!

What If He Isn’t Showing Any Of These Signs?

Just because you can’t see any signs it doesn’t mean that he has lost interest in you. He could be trying very hard to hide the way that he feels about you because he is trying to convince himself that he is ok and desperate to move on. He also has a lot of pride at stake here, if he is the one who broke up with you he will be going through a lot of frustration and confusion and be worried that he made a mistake. He will not want to appear wrong or weak, so he tries desperately to show the outside world that he made the right decision.

Another reason why you might not be able to see the signs is because you do not know what to look for how how to use emotional triggers to make him react in a way that shows his true feelings. There are certain things that you can do and say that will make him tell you how he really feels and catch him off guard. These psychological triggers are incredibly effective in knowing where you stand and how to handle winning him back. The system below shows you exactly what you need to do and say to find out how he really feels.

How To Get Him Back – Step By Step

Text Your Ex Back System

If you prefer to use text messages to get your ex back then this is the system for you. Developed and researched by relationship expert, Michael Fiore, it will teach you how to use text messages to ignite your ex boyfriend’s interest you and make him desire you again. This is even effective when he is completely ignoring you!

Learn what the best text messages to send are in different break up scenarios and what mistakes to avoid at all costs. Watch the free video where he will give you some surprising advice on winning back his attention and love here: Text Your Ex Back Video

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Sarah’s Story

My boyfriend broke up with me back in February 2010 and I was devastated. I thought that he was actually going to propose when he told me that we had to talk, so you can imagine the shock I had when he said that he didn’t see us going anywhere. As we had been talking about marriage and settling down for months, it didn’t make any sense.

Like a lot of other girls I was angry at him and demanded answers, but he couldn’t give me any and this hurt even more because I felt that he was making lame excuses to get rid of me. Three years together and he was treating me like this. I didn’t recognise him as the person I loved, it was like he had changed overnight.

I went into denial at the start and started calling him and chasing after him as if nothing had happened. I thought that I could make him see that he had made a huge mistake and he would take me back. This didn’t happen, he only became more and more distant and started ignoring me altogether. I was in such a mess and didn’t know where to turn.

My friends and family said that he would see sense eventually and that I should just try and get on with things in the meantime. Others told me to move on and find someone else. As if it was that easy, I had invested so much in him and we had planned a future together, I couldn’t just turn my feelings off like that.

This is when I started to look for advice online. I thought that there must be someone that had gone through the same kind of thing as me and could maybe give me some pointers. There were so many women in my position that I kind of felt a bit better about what had happened to me. Knowing that I was not on my own made me think that there was hope.

After a few days digging around and reading everything that I could get my hands on, I noticed that a lot of girls were mentioning the same guide: Ex Factor System. They were all talking about what this guide helped them do and how it actually got them results with their ex boyfriends. I was skeptical that some guide could get it right when I obviously couldn’t. I thought that there was nothing to lose at this stage though as everything I had done up until that point had gotten me nowhere, so I downloaded the entire system and started reading through it.

I soon realised that I was doing everything wrong and suddenly understood why Steven was not interested. It taught me a lot about the male psyche and why you have to act in a certain way if you want to get your ex boyfriend back. I still thought that it was too late for me though as I had made all of the mistakes that the system warned me against, and it was now 5 months after the break up.

I decided to put into practice just a couple of the techniques that Matt Huston recommended to see if they had any impact on Steven. Nothing much happened at first and I started getting down-hearted again, feeling like I had wasted even more time. After a few days though he started to take much more of an interest in me. Instead of me always texting him, he started to ask me how I was and began taking an interest in my life again. It was beginning to feel like it had been when we first started going out, him chasing me and wanting to know more.

The techniques that I learned do require a lot of willpower and you have to stick to them to see results, but it was incredible to see how fast and how well he responded to them. After a while he wanted to meet up with me again, just a casual coffee. But he was more like the Steven I knew before and there was no coldness there anymore. I was patient and let him do the chasing as I wanted him to be sure that he wanted this as much as me. There was no way I wanted to force him into anything as I learned that it would backfire later on down the road.

Needless to say, after a couple of meetings, Steven eventually admitted that he missed me and that he had made a mistake. We promised to take it slow and not rush back into things, but 3 months later we are now back together and planning our future again! I now understand him so much better and know when to give him his space. It is a weird thing to say, but I think that our relationship is much better than it was before.

I just wanted to let other girls out there know that there is still hope for you even if you have made so many mistakes with your ex boyfriend. I did and with the help of Ex Factor System, I managed to reverse this completely. 

Ex Is Dating A New Girl – Learn How To Steal Him Back From Her

Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Here!

Learning that your ex boyfriend is in a new relationship is a challenging time for any girl. All these negative thoughts go running through your head and you are left at a loss as to why he has moved on so quickly. You will be feeling dejected and at a low ebb after a break up, this can be made all the worse when your ex boyfriend has found himself a new girlfriend and seems to be in love with her.

Of course you want to know if he loves her and if he has any feelings at all left for you. This is only natural. It can largely depend on when you broke up with him. Everyone moves on at different stages and this is why it can be confusing for you if you are still heartbroken.

You may have seen him with his new girlfriend and noticed how happy they are. Do not worry yet, the honeymoon phase is magical for any couple, but this does not mean that it will last. If your ex boyfriend has jumped into a new relationship soon after your break up, you can bet your life that he is doing it to either forget about you or prove something to himself. His heart may not be in it at all and the relationship could fall apart just as quickly as it started.

Rebound relationships typically do not last more than the eight week period. It usually takes this amount of time for your ex boyfriend to realise that she is not the girl for him and that he has tried to move on too quickly. Dating again can be a good distraction from having to deal with your real feelings, especially for boys. It is very common for men to seek solace in another girl and pretend that everything is alright.

I hope now that you realise that you have every chance of winning back his love when you see that the foundations of his new relationship are very precarious. If you sit tight and have some patience he will probably be coming back to you sooner than you think, and the best part of it is that you do not have to any work at all, only control yourself.

This is important for you as it will mean the difference between winning him back and losing him forever. You must control your anger and jealousy when you find out about his new relationship. The last thing that you want to do is make him think that you are a pety and childish girl.

Obviously it is not always as easy as this and it can be difficult for you to wait it out. There are more things that you can do to speed up the whole process of attracting him back and making him realise that he made a mistake in getting into a new relationship. It is all about understanding the male psyche and what way they react to certain things. Learn all about them before it is too late.

The Ex Factor System

This ebook and video course download will teach you everything that you need to know about getting your ex boyfriend back, even if they seem to have moved on with another girl. Brad Browning will talk you through every scenario and give you expert tips on what you should be doing to attract him back to you. The course uses the secrets of the make psyche to help you to understand what he thinks about you after the break up, what would make you attractive to him again and strategies to make him miss you. It is a lot more in depth than this of course. If you want to find out more about the system you should head over to their website here: Ex Factor System

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