Signs Your Ex Is Over You
Whenever the break up happens people are often curious to know if their exes are still interested in them or if they have moved on. When you know how to read the signs you will have a better grasp of the reality of your own situation.
There is nothing worse than trying to get your ex back when they have long gotten over you and have moved on, it is humiliating. That is why it is a good idea to arm yourself with as much knowledge as possible so that you can read the signs yourself and prevent this from happening.
We are going to discuss what you should be looking out for and why everything is not always as it seems. You have to delve a little deeper if you want to know the truth about how your ex really feels. It is important that you don’t go rushing in full steam ahead before reading these signs, you could end up making a fool or yourself and pushing your ex even further away. So let’s get started.
Sign 1 – They Refuse To Talk To You
When your ex is still interested in getting back together they will want to leave the lines of communication open. However, if they are adamant that they do not want you back in their lives it will often come across that they do not want to talk to you and are ignoring you. This is not always a bad sign though. It depends upon when you broke up. You see, when your ex is still hurting from the break up they will want to retaliate in any way that they can and hurt you back, just to get a reaction out of you. The best way that they can do this is by refusing to talk to you. It doesn’t necessarily mean that they do not like you anymore or that all of their feelings have dissipated. You have to judge your own personal situation to know exactly how to read the signs.
Your ex could be angry that you cheated on them for example and want to teach you a lesson. They also may not really know what to say to you. Break ups are awkward and having to adjust to a new platonic relationship with you can be confusing. They might just need some time to make sense of it before they approach you again. Look at how long ago you broke up to guage whether or not your ex is over you or not. If you broke up a short time ago then your ex refusing to talk to you is not necessarily a bad thing. However, if it has been some time since the break up and your ex still doesn’t talk to you, it is a sure sign that they are over you or at the very least, do not want you in their lives anymore.
Sign 2 – Your Ex’s Body Language
Look at your ex’s body language when you are with them. Even if they do not say anything to you, there are still ways for you to figure out if they are over you or not. A positive sign is when your ex leans towards you an has ‘open body language’. Also look out for your ex staring at you or trying to catch your attention. These are sure signs that they still are interested in you. Bad signs are when your ex crosses their arms in your presence. This is closed body language and means that your ex is kind of hostile towards you or is trying to protect themselves.
Read Her Body Language
When girls like a guy they will be flirtatious and giggle. This may be subtle, but look out for it if you are in her company again. Likewise, when a girl flutters her eyelids, plays with her hair, or pouts, they are trying to be more attractive to you. Other signs to look out for is her touching you or sitting close beside you. Conversely, if she doesn’t seem bothered about how she looks in front of you, this normally means that she isn’t trying to impress you. When she avoids being anywhere near you or sits as far away from you as possible, it usually means that she does not want to engage with you.
Read His Body Language
Men will often stand up tall to portray the more masculine side of their personality if they are interested in you. Watch out for him being protective towards you like he was when you were together. For example, does he pull seats out for you or put a protective arm around your shoulder? If so, it shows that he still cares for you. He may also be trying to show off in front of you to get your attention. This is a very masculine trait, rather like the mating game. It is him trying to appeal to you and display his credentials. Watch out for this. Conversely, if your ex boyfriend pays you no attention whatsoever, is constantly looking at other girls or seems distracted, it is a clear sign that he is over you.
Sign 3 – They’re Going Out With Someone Else
This again depends on how recent your break up was. If it has been a long time since you broke up and your ex is in a new relationship, the chances are that they have moved on and have no residual feelings left for you.
On the other hand, if you have both just broken up and you find that your ex has suddenly jumped into a new relationship, there is a huge chance that this is a rebound. Your ex will be consciously trying to get over you and this will be a desperate attempt on their part to make it happen. They could also be wanting to teach you a lesson, wanting to hurt you as much as you hurt them.
You cannot just take things at face value here, you might be completely heartbroken when you find out that your ex has started to date someone, but read between the lines, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are over you, they could be trying to provoke a reaction in you and this is a very effective way of doing so.
You can change how your ex feels about you and make them realise that they are with the wrong person. Surprisingly it is rather straightforward to do, you just have to plug into some human psychology to know exactly what buttons to push in your ex. Find out more about this here.
Sign 4 – No Contact With You For Months
Again, look at how long ago the break up was. Did it happen a few days ago? Don’t take no contact as a sign that your ex is already over you if this is the case. Your ex will be trying to work out how they feel and deal with the break up on their own terms. The best way for them to do this is to cut contact with you. They will also not know what to say to you and will be frightened of sparking a negative reaction in you.
Another thing that your ex may be trying to do with no contact is to provoke you in some way or prove a point. If you were the one that broke up with them then they will want to cause you pain too. Their pride will be at stake here so they do not want to appear desperate and contact you just to be rejected again. If they were the one that broke up with you then they will just want their space, so give it to them initially anyway.
The longer the no contact phase goes on, the more you should start to worry. If there has been no sort of contact from your ex for months it is clearly a bad sign. They will have wanted to see how you are or at least craved any kind of communication with you if they still had feelings. Your ex could be incredibly stubborn and determined, either that or they have just moved on and do not feel the need to stay in touch with you.
Look out for signs that your ex is enjoying themselves and getting on with their lives. When they are not looking back over their shoulders at you and reminiscing at the good times, it means that they have put it all behind them and do not want to go there again. Don’t let this dishearten you though, you have to keep in mind that relationships are only over when both partners have already given up.
How To Turn This Around And Make Your Ex Interested Again
There are ways that you can reverse this process though and make your ex sit up and take notice of you again. One way that you can do this is by taking a leaf out of their books. When you start to get back out there and live your life again, your ex will surely notice it and maybe feel pangs of jealousy or regret. This is also a highly attractive trait and will subconsciously make your ex warm towards you again.
When you dwell on your ex and the break up you will not be taking a positive step towards your own future and happiness. You can’t control what your ex thinks and feels about you, but there are things that you can do to encourage them to think positively about you again and start seeing you as a potential partner. The key here is to identify what psychological buttons to push in your ex to make them want you back. When you understand something about male and female psychology, you will have a very good chance of making your ex want you and chase you again. Even when your ex is showing you all the above signs that they are over you, it is not necessarily too late to do something about it. The guides below will go into more detail about what exactly these specific techniques are.
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